Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 7324301)

Hi Bro,

Don't be sad, take things slowly at a time, my bx also like yours when she 1st came to s'pore 2 year ago, always sad, home sick, feel lonely especially during the period when she got pregnant so in order to keep her time occupied when I'm working, I applied for her the passion card & registered her to various short courses at our CC, eg. basic english lang. , cooking, line dance, basic computer, yoga, etc all these not only help to occupied her time but also allow her to make more frd, upgrade her knowledge & skills.

Originally Posted by vietboy (Post 7323668)

What uncle? He not even 40 yet!

Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 7324301)

Hi Bro,

Don't be sad, take things slowly at a time, my bx also like yours when she 1st came to s'pore 2 year ago, always sad, home sick, feel lonely especially during the period when she got pregnant so in order to keep her time occupied when I'm working, I applied for her the passion card & registered her to various short courses at our CC, eg. basic english lang. , cooking, line dance, basic computer, yoga, etc all these not only help to occupied her time but also allow her to make more frd, upgrade her knowledge & skills.

Originally Posted by Blast88 (Post 7324691)

in order to keep her time occupied when I'm working, I applied for her the passion card & registered her to various short courses at our CC, eg. basic english lang. , cooking, line dance, basic computer, yoga, etc all these not only help to occupied her time but also allow her to make more frd, upgrade her knowledge & skills.

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 7325539)

My baxa actually doesn't like to mix around much with vietnamese as they gossip a lot. My wife has china, malaysia and also singaporean friends. These 2 years, my baxa started to mix around with 1 or 2 viet spouses in Singapore.

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 7320025)

Something about Singaporean husband is that they give in so much to their Vietnamese wife until the whole household become vietnamese. Yes, doting your wife is a must but we must let them know that they need to adapt to the food and lifestyle here after marrying here. They cannot be asking for everything vietnamese after marrying here. Just like when i was staying in VN some years ago, i had to adapt myself to the lifestyle and food there. No complaints. Many viet spouse use `not used to lifestyle here' as reason to go back VN so often, and always staying for a month or so. If this happens much too often, the chances of her having a viet bf there is very high. My wife only goes back here province once in a few years, or when necessary. She adapts to life here. This is how we can create a family that's happy. You cannot expect to have a blissful family without sacrficing something. If you let your children be like the kids from Vietnamese province, they will grow up like them. Lowly educated and lazy. They will be lagging behind everybody in Singapore. We are living in modern day singapore, we cannot expect to bring up kids the vietnamese way and neither can we afford to create a vietnamese environment at home. The rich vietnamese are sending their kids to singapore to learn our way of life, then why are we bringing up our kids in their hopeless way? Sorry to sound drastic and blunt. If we do not want others to look down on us, we should not act in such ways that create the poor image of us.

Originally Posted by Golden question (Post 7320224)

So if a vietnamese wife really want to live with u here and start a family,she is the one that must sacrifie to adapt to sg things to live with u.Worry is worry as a husband but if she really want a happy family with you,she will slowly adapt,for her is no choice

Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 7323723)

ask you to come out often and know more vb liao but you no go ....
many vb in gl/jc also not use to sillypore chinese food.

there are all kind of vb from syt to milf with different thinking, taste, attitude... you see more, you know more :p

Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 7324276)

Of cos i trust my wife if not i wun marry her liao lo. I known her thru my ex gf which i treated her with all the worng methods. Spend so much on her, give in to her then she still treat me like dirt, feltreally khong or kana black magic. Thats why hope those bro still dating only dun repeat my mistake. lucky is i know my wife thru her.
My wife n family treat me very nice, they know i not rich. N good thing parents are hardworking farmers.

Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 7324301)

No one at home to cook for her all working ma. Bo bian.. Then the preg didnt go smooth, she is weak and always bleed haiz.. Btw the time bring her mum here also too late liao damn sad..
Now hope to try again also sad, dunno what to do.

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 7325539)

Its good to let your baxa mix around with other friends. My baxa actually doesn't like to mix around much with vietnamese as they gossip a lot. My wife has china, malaysia and also singaporean friends. These 2 years, my baxa started to mix around with 1 or 2 viet spouses in Singapore.

Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 7326024)

my bx has yet to mix around with singapore friends or get close to spouses of some bros here... its just hi bye hi bye hi bye...

lucky is that my bx don't feell lonely here as she has her own relative and friends in sillypore.

Originally Posted by vietboy (Post 7326679)

Bro, she need to widen her circle of friends lah. Just like u know more vb to widen yur circle of vb friends. :p:D

Originally Posted by vietboy (Post 7323619)

Me 2! Salute u jackbl! Gotta learn from u!:D

Originally Posted by vietboy (Post 7326679)

Bro, she need to widen her circle of friends lah. Just like u know more vb to widen yur circle of vb friends. :p:D