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Im female in my early 30s. Totally loss interest with men. Mostly because they like to go for pay sex. I find them very unhygienic. Pardon me for saying that all men.

Any men here don't like to go pay sex that can chg my view to men?

Any ladies have the same thinking as mine?

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Well..I'm a 25 year old male and I don't like to go for paid sex or FL..Reason being for me its not so much about the act itself but doing with someone I like or am comfortable with..Not that I have regular sex..

I know plenty of bros here have different preferences..thus I think it would not be fair to say all men like to go for paid sex..You probably haven't met men who don't do it.

Hope it helps!

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super honestly.. i had 2 ex gf and my current gf is coming to 10yrs together.

the only sex we had were oral sex. never really had the balls to go all the way as
1) she wanna remain virgin till marriage , which means, not even fingering. my 2 previous ex let me.

nowadays dont really do anything cause she's kinda religious and feels guilty. what to do must DIY. no balls to try paid sex.. cause never know what that person has or the person who visited her had.. i still believe in the "stick to one, be safe than sorry" rule..

unless you telling me a girl who is willing to be my fb and sticks to me and not other guys .. than maybe can consider..

wanna find FB also not that good looking nor am i a good talker. suck it up liao..

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Hmm... Not true. I m also in my early 30s. Wife no longer keen. I also don't go for paid sex as i find it dirty too. So i always fish from the decent source (non clubbing, non nightclub ktv places).

Guess there are also lots of men out there who r looking for long term decent fb with less risk.

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i think ultimately, we want someone whom we can feel comfortable with, who are looking for the same thing.

sex deprived guy looking for sex deprived girl purely for sex and sticks to that partner.

to me, whats stopping me is i that i want someone who is interested in sex and is also not looking around for someone else, we meet up just for it and part and get on with our lives. no feelings or attachments. hard? yes. but possible

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im 21 and doesn't believe in paid sex..

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Wat is wrong with paid sex i wonder?

Do u wan ur future husband to go for paid sex or u perfer them to cheat gals feelings and of cos get to fuck them for free with feelings involved?

But since there a few post here saying thinking paid sex is dirty

Well to each on his own i guess

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same here....i m a guy, i would rather fail of courting a women properly then going for paid sex...it not about unhygienic but to me, pleasing a women is a skill rather than a release which most new generation sg guys here have...

funny sg guys...so perverted and mind-sicko.......
good that you think this way..

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it people like you that are emotionally and mentally weak which you cant control it...hence less superior abilities of perceive what can be separately easily...funny sg guys. nowadays...it is people like you dont have loyalty.....pathetic....nowadays most new generation people dont have loyalty...funny new generation sg people

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I agree it is super gross and unhygienic. But I bet they feel the same way about woman who have too many raw sex too.

I am fine with it if they done it occasionally in the past with protection. Otherwise.. I would be totally grossed out. God know what illness they have. Plus most STD don't show sign till its too late.

So best thing to do is date nerdy, shy, sociable guys that is less likely to fool around and bang them enough that they are too "drained" to go get FL :D

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Keep it up on ur insults! What you say dun bother me anyway

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If free sex or fb can easily find, who would want to go for paid sex ..

Unless you are a Casanova, the chance and time spent to find one is slim and long.

Beside pcc, paid sex is the fastest route to cool down men sexual desires :D

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Very happy to know a few nice guys

some men pay to get new experiences like bdsm, anal sex, group sex, mfff (id like to try that), porno-type of services that partners arent willing.

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sis,

you do know we can't influence your views about men as much as you want to.

for all you know, you are already disguised with men on their hygiene and not necessary with them going for FL/WL. That's just sex.

so, how do you want the bros and sis here to change your views with them airing theirs...will that really help you? i hope so...

have a nice day.