How many is here because you are sexually frustrated?
 

Hi guys and gals,
Been around for many years now but never really started a thread of my own. The reason for this thread is purely out of curiosity. I have seen threads asking about whether bros and sis here belief in true love to whether u married the person u love most. I have a theory that most of us here, are here because of sexual frustrations. Its either you are not getting any from the gf or wifes, or that it is a one way traffic thing. Or it is not as good as it used to be.

These and other sex related reasons may be the force that drives us here to FANTASY LAND aka sammyboyforum.

My confession. I am one such person. My grouse is that sex with my wife is, well, boring after the birth of our son. Married for 4 years now. Her concept is that, we are now parents, so must behave. I can't remember the last time she initiate sex anymore. Now when i ask, she will give all sorts of excuses. When she gives in, its usually because she felt obliged to service me, spread her legs and say do it quickly. No variations. straight missionary. worse still, while u are at it, she will ask, why so long, not yet finish har?

This is the same woman who loved blowjob when we first started. Now, dirty laa.... Also forbids me to go down on her... same reason, dirty laaa...

So, here i m frustrated, but thanks to sammyboy, i can relieve myself with the good stuff here.

Any bros and sis here care to support my theory or tear it down, please feel free to do so.

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bro, few of my friend's wife also have this mentality. it is indeed to change their perception of things but you can try to educate them slowly and i know of one who managed to do so on his wife. of course it isnt eassy but when it happened, it is great :D

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came across yr post bro'. and u r not alone.

i oso. what to do? they approaching menopause and just don't seem to find sex that important anymore....

so i come to this place lor. check out the action with like-minded males.

cannot push them. after all, they are mother to our kids. just loon lor. as coffe-shop talk.

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bro, u r not alone... me married for 3yrs n sex is like 0nce a month....damn sad....:D ...b4 married, sex was like almost everyday...lol... her reason was she is tired lah...stress lah..etc...wat to do...come sbf lor...

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i oso. what to do? they approaching menopause and just don't seem to find sex that important anymore....

Bro, i hear u. But my wife just turn 30 this year and has a body to die for(She is 170cm, weighs 50kg with stats, 36-26-36) . My frens would usually say things like," you damn lucky fucker!" to me, but if only they know my pain. :(

You know, I have another theory for this. It's their women friends. They get together and compare notes with each other, everything ranging from makeup, to recipes and sex. She once came back telling me that none of her frens do BJ on their husbands. And thats when I didn't get no BJs no more!!!

Another time she came back telling me that "sex is not the only thing in life, u know" Obviously some frigid bitch got to her laa.... then i m left with a rock hard dick in hand..... under utilized mostly....:o

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whats happening to our singapore wives?

i was in hk recently and got a drink in a pub. the pub manageress, in her late 30s, told me most of the wives in hk dont give their husbands blowjobs. i told her in spore, we get bj and CIM from our wives when we snap our fingers... :D

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wah like that chia lat liao. i thot ah so oredi that's why not interested in sex anymore....

yes, their frens oso stir shit-lah. once they all agree that BJ, CIM and anal no go, we suffer.

read in the papers some time ago, this guy brought his wife for counselling cuz' of this problem, ALMOST DIVORCE bro'! she said no means no....

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my first time posting...

i cannot agree more....been married for more than 10 years...the sex part is the inverse of the length of marriage....the longer you're married the lesser the sex part....sometimes i read the logo at the top of sbf, woman need a reason, man just need a place....i also laugh....now the trips i make to bkk is get more and more....don't know can afford to bluff for how long more....i really want to know how many bros here actually ever go for marriage counselling??:confused:

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Bro Castrol, you make us less fortunate souls green with envy:p.

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One of my ex-gf once tried that with me, after moving in with me for 6 months, the first six months were bliss, sex every night and morning. BJ in the shower, doggie while watching TV, etc.

Then as usual, she got to know this bunch of women at work and started talking and coming back with, "you know lucy from accounts? she doesn't do BJs!" or "Stephanie, Lucy, Emma and Liz says that my energy should be better channelled into other activities rather than letting you pump me all the time..." yeh, better activities like going to the spa, salon, shoe shopping etc, bitches...

So one day i said to her straight, if we're not gonna fuck, then dun complain or get in the way should i go out and fuck someone else. She didn't believe me, so I did and she moved out. Now I'm living with a gal who loves sex and football.... brilliant! :D

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Best of both worlds!So envious of u sia~~:)

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she loves sex and willingly watch football with you?? there is a heaven after all!!

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presently still no such problem... but hmmm... in future not sure will such a thing happen anot.. :cool:

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She not only watches, she also plays defender with a gals team. It's a good thing, keeps her fit and her stamina lasts for hours in between the sheets. :D

With the watching, sometimes we get into arguments about which team is gonna win, she supports Spurs and I support Liverpool, things get quite heated up and most of the time, we have to sort things out by fucking during half time.... :D

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omg, does she have any friends or sisters like her in singapore? :p

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I am in the same boat as you - exactly what you said - a mirror image of me in you! KNN! If not for my son whom I love so much, I would dump her and get another life sex partner NOT a sleeping partner good for nothing!

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Sigh.... looks like i had unknowingly opened up some wounds by starting this thread.... but to bro whitegal, i salute u!!! my number one fantasy, which obviously is reality to you already, is to get a BJ while watching MU scoring a goal!!! and yell GOALLLLLL on Climax! :D

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well this is motherhhod, once they have kids their attention will be 95% on kids and the rest is distribute evenly among others which is to say the husband get about less than 5% of her attention.

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No no no, when the match is playing, all eyes will be on the screen, maybe a hug or sharing a bottle of Becks is ok, maybe a kiss here and there... the BJ is half time or for post match conferences. :D

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Why did you fuck her and produce a son in the first place then???:confused:

You've made your bed... now sleep on it.:mad:

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well, boss, if you really thought that way, you wouldn't have this site up and directly/indirectly encouraged us to sleep on other beds. Oh well, couldn't blame you right, also got many other sites, and it is our fault cannot control etc.. whatever.

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Married men with wives and children are banned from this site.

This forum is for unmarried/unattached cheongsters only.

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boss woke up on wrong side of bed this morning....
if boss banned all the rest, sbf would lose more than half of its population...

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Hiyah Primal:

My situation is not quite like yours, but similar. Since the kids, things in the sex dept. have slowed down in a major way. Think is, when we do find time, wife is VERY game, in fact, she'll run and get the pornos to get in the mood. Also, certain positions hurt since the kinds came....have to get that checked with the gynnie. The long and short of it is, the frequency, 2-3 times per month is crap. We used to shag every day, BJs, anal, toys...you name it, we did it. Now just no time. Sure, circumstances are partially to blame but wife's career is also an issue. The truth is, if my sack was empty all the time, I wouldn't even be aware of this site, but my sack is usually bursting now days because of the lack of sex.

Did that make sense?

:)
Jim

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haha bro dont be, we make full use of the one at home just becos she's there. :p

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Hey Jim, atleast you have got a live one there. Only that she is busy with work or watever. Looks like most of us here has a cold dead fish with us. Had long sworn off "outsourcing" but with me travelling so much at work recently, can't help thinking about cheonging again. And the stuff in here sure as hell not helping the cause!! :rolleyes:

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bro JWNY,
You sure nailed it there. She just asked me rudely to 'fucking switch off the lights" last night.

I was like, "yeah sure, after the fucking then i will switch off the lights!" Sure as hell wanted to jump her there and then but was never a violent person. instead just walked off to grab a beer and watch ESPN, leaving the lights on, ofcourse .....:D

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1st timer, if wrong dun flame.

I have been very active in my early days, things turn around after i married my wife, my sex life is limited, not sure why..... and i did not blame my wife, as i feel it's me.....

My wife is as beautiful since day 1 we met, now look even better after child birth, mature, powerful and sexy.

After the birth of my princess, my entire attention diverted to my baby. I spend a lot of time and no denied still love my wife. But it's me that i feel not want to have it.

Dunno what wrong with me?? Sometimes spend a lot of time wandering, is it that i have finish my desire in life in early days???? Where i fuck every day??
Or is it because i have a daughter and scared of retribution??!!

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Frustrated because still single and no outlet. Plus practice makes perfect. ;)