What are you paying your sugarbaby? (Malaysia)
 

Recently looking into finding a sugarbaby in Malaysia, since it suits my lifestyle more now.

Just wanted to ask some bros who have more experience in this area:

1) What are you paying? (Pay per meet/Long term monthly)
2) What does she provide in return (raw?/how many meets? etc)
3) If you have any other advice (i.e how to manage the relationship or how to find the best sugar baby)

Recently matched with a Malay 21y/o - around 4K MYR monthly, yet to meet.

From what I got quoted on SB websites - Chinese is roughly 2k/meet and 8-10k/long term? (got one quoted 12k+ , but honestly doesn't seem that hot)

Malay/Iban/others - 1k-1.5k/meet and around 4k-6k myr monthly.

Thanks in advance.

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Those quotes include sex or just companionship?

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Yes, included.

Not bad actually. Normally FL prices are 3-4k RM per shot or per 2 hours.

I’d recommend PPM as you might get tired and want to switch girls so monthly commitment may not be the best.

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I think I prefer to have one main one, and then can have PPM others :)

Good point. Used to have one.

10k/month. Meet as and when. I’m busy so max also 2x a week.

Raw is allowed when relationship is established but I don’t due to safety. I’m more into light BDSM.

Managing them is personal. I know friends who are very clingy. And they don’t like that - at least the one I know. They are also busy with their uni life whatsoever so be respectful of that. Besides, high value man as busy with building shit up and not just banging them. As much as you’ve “secured” them, you’ll still have to play the value game so they perceive you as someone they respect. Goes a long way.

Hope this helps.

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Thanks man!

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which platform do you guys use to find? can PM?

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Great thead, good luck to TS ;)
Also great comments from Charleslec, thanks for sharing your view.

I never had a sugarbaby but i browes dating apps and I feel so many girls looking for relationship. If you can be your partner you may try to find a genuine, non-commersial partner.

Good luck

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Years or should I say decades when I was seconded to Putrajaya office. I met one young girl in Uni. Playful young and wild, YOLO type. Came from a very strict Chinese family. Can tell she wants to try many different things in her life. Got to known through Friendster last time.

Back then I gave her allowance of RM 5k which was a lot. I even let her drive my car and gave. Her a handphone - 8210 and subsequently 8850. On top of it all expenses paid for when she is out with me.

I let her keep her time and friends and even boyfriend if she wants. But she knowingly did not get into any serious relationship even though she would like to.

When I was earning more I even let her drive a second hand car I bought - vw beetle.

Ofcourse needless to say, meet up and timings are all done respectfully. There still needs to be trust and mutual respect.

The whole thing lasted for 2.5 years before I ended my secondment and naturally I gave her a sum and we ended off the relationship. Wished her well deleted every message and information and we both moved on in life.

Even now I wanted to find her it would not be easy.

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Is down to luck, how you treat the girls and how good looking you are.

I have 4-5 SB in KL. 3 Malay and 2 Chinese
Malay 1 (20 Years Old): You uni girl. Short. Less than 145 cm. Love to get fucked hard. Because she is so small, easy to lift up and down
Malay 2 (25 Years Old): 160cm. Also loves to get fucked hard. Stoner girl. Has boyfriend. Shit with money. Yolo type. Big tits. Slim
Malay 3 (23 Years Old): RM1,500. Actually very smart. But had suicidal tendencies previously. Trophy wife material. Slim
Chinese 1 (25 Years Old): RM900. Slim. Married. Sleeping around to make money for herself. Also loves to fuck
Chinese 2 (30 Years Old): RM4,500 a month. Trophy wife material. Big tits. Likes to be naked when at home. Sends me nudes all the time

1. How Much
Malay 1 (20 Years Old): RM500 per meet
Malay 2 (25 Years Old): Varies. She milks me for money in between sessions
Malay 3 (23 Years Old): RM1,500 per meet
Chinese 1 (25 Years Old): RM900 per meet
Chinese 2 (30 Years Old): RM4,500 a month + gifts

2. What does she provide in return
Malay 1 (20 Years Old): Raw. Video. No kissing. Tried anal but she too small and Im too thick. Didnt want to hurt her
Malay 2 (25 Years Old): 3 holes. Raw. Video
Malay 3 (23 Years Old): Raw. No anal
Chinese 1 (25 Years Old): No video. No anal. With condom sex
Chinese 2 (30 Years Old): Anything except anal. This girl horny. CIM, CIP, Video anytime. Rim me. Kissing. Unlimited meets for month. She actually wants to see me

3. If you have any other advice (i.e how to manage the relationship or how to find the best sugar baby)
Sugar dating reflects real dating. If you are fat, old, smell and cant get a girl in real life, you have to pay. Like a lot.

If you can get girls in real life, Sugaring shortcuts to the sex and takes away the need to date, keep up a rship.

KL is honestly an amazing place for sugaring.

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bro, how you get those gals?

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All from SB.

Everyone goes after the same honey. You just gotta find gold from elsewhere and not treat them like FL when you are with them.

Anyways, now I gotta work out how many I want to fuck on my next trip over. Hard to do raw and trust they arent carrying STI. Dont want to spread it in my harem.

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SB is sugar book?

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I think so, I got auntie wants to be my SugarMama instead there. Tempting but no thanks

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Seems likeSB is banned in MY already.

Seems .ike once you pass the 4k mark, they want to see you all the time...

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Definitely, it is like a 1 month salary paycheck.

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I reached out to a few on SB, and managed to nego with about 5 or 6 different girls down to RM800 PPM. These were the experienced SB's and of a decent quality (cabin crew etc).

After the first meet, if there is good chemistry, the price can be reduced.

The more green ones wanted higher price. They were asking RM2000+ and I got the feeling that they hadn't done it before.

I think SB finds girls on IG or BIGO who fit the SB profile (or might be convinced) and try to convince them to join the platform.

This was about 2 or 3 years ago though...

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Bro, RM500 PPM for Malay 1 is a very good price, and if she let you take video's...good value =)

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hey bros, i appreciate the info being shared. how does the PPM work in actual day? does it end up with a bedroom session during every meet?

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Yes, usually they know PPM generally means in the bedroom. But always confirm before hand.

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Recently I am dipping toes into the SB market. It seems to be quite active...last night I spent evening with a runway model. Quite tall, and really attractive, hourglass figure with enhanced assets. Overall the experience was positive. But to play on this platform, you have learn fast about the game :D.

Thanks for the tips here!

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Bro Sprout69 where to find these sugar babies,any particular group or website that can find them? thank you

Re: What are you paying your sugarbaby? (Malaysia)
 

Bro Sprout69 where to find these sugar babies,any particular group or website that can find them? thank you

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Can sharing more tips from you too?