Anyone else feels trapped in a cage in a sexless Marriage?
 

Am I the only one feeling trapped in this cage where your sex life is as frequent as other animals that mate once a year?

Re: Anyone else feels trapped in a cage in a sexless Marriage?
 

Not to mention, you get sucked dry of your money with lots of debts to pay. :D
She earns money, you pay.
You earn money, you also pay.

Basically, an ATM with a marriage certificate bond.
Can I invest in these bonds, bao jiak, interest rate wu hua. HAHAHA

Re: Anyone else feels trapped in a cage in a sexless Marriage?
 

Question - why did you marry her...:confused:

Re: Anyone else feels trapped in a cage in a sexless Marriage?
 

People can change before & after

Re: Anyone else feels trapped in a cage in a sexless Marriage?
 

how long have you been together?
how long was the marriage?
do you have sex regularly before marraige?
do you ave kids?

Re: Anyone else feels trapped in a cage in a sexless Marriage?
 

I feel you All 😪 😢 😔
Come Bo Ta Bo L P

Re: Anyone else feels trapped in a cage in a sexless Marriage?
 

about 5yr, Yes, No (Can count occurences with 1 hand so chance of kids is close to none lol)

Re: Anyone else feels trapped in a cage in a sexless Marriage?
 

Lazy people in marriage becomes very dependent on another.
What is the point of that significant another.
What benefits does one get besides getting a Slob?

Re: Anyone else feels trapped in a cage in a sexless Marriage?
 

-- create a new post myself --

Re: Anyone else feels trapped in a cage in a sexless Marriage?
 

Ohh...then you have to choose your options carefully...:)

- chat with her and tell her what you need and see if anything change
- go cheong outside and still go home
- final straw divorce and restart again

Re: Anyone else feels trapped in a cage in a sexless Marriage?
 

Do you know the cause of the change?
Have you spoken with her about the differences pre and post marriage?
Do you still love her?
Have you tried spicing things up?
Do both of you still go on date, have a long chat over dinner, communicating about everything in life?

Re: Anyone else feels trapped in a cage in a sexless Marriage?
 

I am not the TS. I am divorced.

Before my divorce, I did all these that you talked about.

My ex-wife told me two things.

1. Our roles have changed from a couple to parents.
2. I cannot be so self-centred that everything is about me and my dick.

I decided to get divorced, even though it would get me much poorer.

I still have a sexless life and am still a father, but at least I don't have to share a bed with a woman that will not touch me anymore. Her focus changed to our children and, eventually, her lover outside. Someone that is more fun and does not nag at her for spending too much.

Re: Anyone else feels trapped in a cage in a sexless Marriage?
 

seems like it’s a commonality for couples, married or otherwise, to fall into a routine after some years.

Re: Anyone else feels trapped in a cage in a sexless Marriage?
 

Damn. Respect to you for taking the first move to leave and the last statement is very true, eventually even in a marriage, she will do that regardless of what she said earlier on.

Re: Anyone else feels trapped in a cage in a sexless Marriage?
 

Why not pay for sex? You don’t have to answer to anybody now.