Cheating-The other way around
 

Hi bros,

I know you guys here probably have eaten outside behind your wife's back, but still go back and takes good care of the wife and family. Some of you probably might think it's a necessary evil to maintain the marriage, and you probably have good reasons to justify your actions. I just want to know if you found out your wife did the same thing as well, will you be able to close one eye for the sake of the family?

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I myself not married.

But from what i heard from a friend of mine who sell high end make up products to rich tai tai.....

Alot of rich tai tai find young men to eat. Their husband also outside eat.

End of the day they go back together.

But i personally feel, this type of relationship, sooner or later break up. Unless the man rich forever.

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F@&# without love is like animals.

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This type of situations depends on how it was done, with or without each other's knowledge, the feelings and thrills will be different.

Type 1 - If husband/wife eat outside, wife/husband obedient at home, husband/wife cums home and be good husband/wife, even good father/mother, act with responsibility. I think it is acceptable.

Type 2 - If husband/wife eat outside, wife/husband eat outside, and both cums home as lovely couple, act act also acceptable.

Type 3 - If husband/wife eat outside, wife/husband obedient at home, husband/wife heck care and still ask for money, like that, wife/husband better go outside and eat also.

:p

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I think if the man cheat....he should be prepared that one day the wife would do the same bah...but if the man is decent but end up with a cheating wife....better to move on with his life bah....it is only fair mah....:D:D:D

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I act blur ... but give warning sign and see how her reaction :p .... if she dont love me anymore than no choice ... seperate ways :o

Technically speaking we are animals too ... who only claim to be civilized & cultured ;)

....... But will come to real life ... behave more worse than animals ... :o

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TS,

Men in general are selfish and dominant in sex. Therefore, it is acceptable for men to cheat but not many men can accept if their wife cheats on them.

Since the fact men are normally more dominant when we dont get enough at home we will look for it outside.

Furthermore, it is really tough to stick with 1 woman through out this life time. If financially stable, men will look for another woman.

End of the day, do whatever you want just dont get caught!:D

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A good question that many cannot answer cos its emotional driven. Sexual equality in rights and wrongs? when women learn how to detach their emotions from a sexual encounter like men.

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Monitor her closely. cheating in a relationship shouldn't be tolerated.:cool:

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:( we are capable on doing more evil things than animal. animal kill only for survivor.:(

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I have to agree with you bro.

Heres what I feel about emotions.

Men can engage in hot sex with a lot of women, and after the whole thing, He can just act like he dont know the women at all.

but women, I feel, might be implicated emotionally when they get sex from many men.

So yea, Men and women when comes to cheating, kind of different

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I don't agree on this.
If a woman is open and comfortable about her sexuality, woman are capable of detach love from sex. Sex is just sex. Making love is a totally different level for woman.

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Cheating is cheating. Regardless of men or women, there's still lust and intimacy involved.

If a guy wants to cheat, and can't tolerate his girl cheating, then don't cheat in the first place. Same goes for women. Or rather, don't get yourself in a committed relationship if you wanna play around. You're better off single and free to mingle.

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Being selfish and dominant does not entitle a man to have sex with anyone whenever. If they can't accept their wives cheating then in the first place don't even do it.

Tough but it's possible. Sex is not everything.

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If there's kids then maybe. Be open with her since she probably knows that you screw around as well. If both of you wants to carry on & maintain a sexual relationship then go for regular bloodtests.

Just don't ever let your kids see your other lover :)