Depressed about girls
 

I'm 20 year old malay guy currently in ns. I'm always very horny and often have to pay for sex at least once in 2 months. Recently I've been very depressed about the myself. Loser Malay guy who never had a girlfriend, needs to pay for sex, still in ns.

I tried online dating but most of the girl on okc are fakes and I have low matching rate. 2-3 matches in like 3 months. As for tinder, I only get at most 4 matches throughout my whole 3 months of usage. Not kidding. Used a few decent picture of myself but i don't get any matches. Maybe I'm too ugly so I don't know. Girl friends say I'm sweet and charming. Don't talk about hygiene as i do take care of myself very well. Please do not stereotype. Maybe skin color might be an issue.

Then comes to sex. I'm very horny. Horny to the point where I would everyday think about fucking. As an nsf, my pay is peanuts compared to working adults. So having to spend $50 - $100 a month for sex is very challenging not to mention I'm supporting my widowed mother whos juggling between work and taking care of my younger sister. Back then when my dad was still alive, we were quite well to begin with. Only recently we had to budget down a little.

Im Wondering if anyone here can give me some advice on how to better manage my sexual urges and probably give me some advice on how to manage my depression.

If you have any tips on how to strike up a girl on tinder or okc to at least get them to go out with me then that would help too. I'm just really inexperienced in dating scene. I see some guys even ugly ones have tinder matches up to 100+. I tried to follow them but I never even get any matches.

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Once every two month is not a lot. But i suggest maybe you tell youself focus what you should do after ns to earn more to divert the attention.

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To some their life lady luck not good. So leave it step by step

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$560 only. Stay out

Re: Depressed about girls
 

What i can say is:

U still young and these are early days. Focus on something more important and lasting instead of this now.
I can say most of the uncles here had it worse when they were your age. No gf and dont even have money to go paying for sex. U are the one having it easy now.

Time for u to start a new life objective. Give up short term pleasure to go for long term benefits. Like how to make more money (legally).
When u have done it, u look back. U wont regret all the sacrifices u made.

Yes all of us are fucking horny when we were 20 years old too. Not just u all right! And there were no dating app during those times.

Re: Depressed about girls
 

I lost my virginity at 25. Beat that!

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I lost my virginity at 21 in GL. Not too bad, the girl still gave me $2 red packet for losing my virginity to her.

Sad sad...

Hahaha so it true? U recieve red packet from the girls for your first time?
They made it memorable?

Re: Depressed about girls
 

skin colour definitely affects the match rate, sad but true. Anyway for Tinder, just blindly swipe right for every single girl once the cooldown is over. It just ups the probability to get more matches.

Match first then talk. Other things are secondary. Match first most important.

As for controlling sexual urges, just DIY until your cock cannot stand. Then you won't think anymore. Porn so easily accessible these days.. try tumblr if unsure.. good place to start.

Yes. Paid $50 for service. Return me $2 discount in a red packet lol

Re: Depressed about girls
 

Pm me for pickup and confidence-building sessions. We can meet up, I'll walk you through it. Oh, the sessions dont come free.

Re: Depressed about girls
 

TS mentioned he feels like a loser cos he has to pay for sex.

What's wrong with paying for sex ah?

U know even Hugh Grant or even the US president got pay for sex right?

Re: Depressed about girls
 

Agreed on this... where got free sex in this world? Paid sex is still more cheaper I Guess Plus u dun get KC by the gal la :D

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Bro gals are nothing just trouble la...focus on career and money better ........

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same, i would suggest that TS learn to hold 50 bucks in his left hand and right hand just shake it off.
and at the end of the activity, he would have save that 50 bucks.