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SWINGER888 19-01-2019 07:22 AM

Re: Gamble problems
 
Hi guys,

Dunno is this the correct place to post my problems, but seriously need some advise over here...

I pick up the habit of online casino from another forum since last year March and hooked on to it till now.. i started with a mere $20-50 per hand and make a decent profit of about 20k plus first 3 months (btw i have my own biz and also kinda healthy on my finances )

trying to curb this habit by gg to IMH and some church...
doctor gave me pills to calm my nerve which doesnt help
church which i felt i am out of place due to those who goes there are in deep deep shit (they gamble till owe money lender or loansharks which the church will help them to solve etc... those members will have a strange look on me cos i dont owe ml or loansharks or maybe to them i am a lucky guy who does not owe all these and i stop gg there alr.

recently i even up my stakes to recoup my losses i can bex their max bet of even up to 20k per hand etc.. i can win 50k today and tmr lost back 120k

i am really at lost now cos i really wanna stop but always fails on that...
i will deposit 5k in and within 15 mins won 2.5k and it is like kinda easy money

btw i dont have any finances burden as i can even have a SB etc...

any brother here can advice me?
what i have done so far to stop but failed

1) all cards not with me (but i always can drive to the bank and do cash withdraw over counter)
2) download apps to block my laptop and phone
(always ask my wife for password to unlock by telling her lies :)
3) try not to think about it but once i spend a few thousands on bags etc i will be thinking of win it back and i always succeed on that
4) reset pw on the online casino but agents always reset for me
(i even ask my friend can i ask the agents to ban me which he says who will wanna ban me cos those agents knows i am a big timer and can make money from me)
5) i read many stories on problem gambling but failed after a while

so i really need some experts to help me

thanks in adv

benjm85 19-01-2019 10:31 PM

Re: Gamble problems
 
Go find activities to occupy yourself, new hobbies etc. So you will not have time to do all this.
By the way my wife also same situation as you. Haiz..

Pinkyfantasy 20-01-2019 03:06 AM

Re: Gamble problems
 
Pass me your extra cash. ;)
Keep your mind occupy.

SWINGER888 20-01-2019 07:04 AM

Re: Gamble problems
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by benjm85 (Post 18263985)
Go find activities to occupy yourself, new hobbies etc. So you will not have time to do all this.
By the way my wife also same situation as you. Haiz..

hi bro,

so did u find any solution to it?

as in yr wife still gamble?

SWINGER888 20-01-2019 07:22 AM

Re: Gamble problems
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Pinkyfantasy (Post 18264590)
Pass me your extra cash. ;)
Keep your mind occupy.


thats a good idea lol

but what do i get in return hehe

cheers

arsenal_84 22-01-2019 12:10 AM

Re: Gamble problems
 
my uncle recently had a divorce because his wife cannot stand his gambling ways.
they had 2 kids and they are still quite young...the eldest daughter haven't even pass sec sch education.

SWINGER888 22-01-2019 05:55 AM

Re: Gamble problems
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by arsenal_84 (Post 18268659)
my uncle recently had a divorce because his wife cannot stand his gambling ways.
they had 2 kids and they are still quite young...the eldest daughter haven't even pass sec sch education.

really sad to hear that...

btw what does yr uncle gamble? horse , soccer ?

sexcision 22-01-2019 09:09 AM

Re: Gamble problems
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by SWINGER888 (Post 18264976)
thats a good idea lol

but what do i get in return hehe

cheers

you get lesser money to gamble, and you will feel happy you did something to make someone very happy!

good deal? lol

Greendevil 22-01-2019 09:47 AM

Re: Gamble problems
 
Bro, i guess the problem is money and time, both of which you have too many and not put in good use. maybe try open sea fishing? rent a boat, enjoy the scene and keep you away from the internet and gambling LOL.

maxsee 22-01-2019 02:36 PM

Re: Gamble problems
 
Addiction is something that is not easily cured unless u seeks professional help or have an extremely strong willpower. Best to seek a professional counsellor on this.

Good thing my addiction is only gaming which don't cost much each month. :p

benjm85 22-01-2019 03:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SWINGER888 (Post 18264910)
hi bro,

so did u find any solution to it?

as in yr wife still gamble?

She recently stop cos she is in a hugh debt. Still finding ways to clear the debt.
You gamble with money that you have is ok, my wife gamble with money she dont have is looking for trouble.

jameschong1 22-01-2019 09:46 PM

Re: Gamble problems
 
[QUOTE]
Quote:

Originally Posted by SWINGER888 (Post 18261594)
Hi guys,
so i really need some experts to help me

lend your $ to us. we keep for u

SWINGER888 23-01-2019 05:48 AM

Re: Gamble problems
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by funboi (Post 18271335)
The problem is got money. So you need to find ways to let someone manage all your money. ;)

In sg you need IC to withdraw money over the counter. I suggest you keep your driving license in wallet is sufficient. Then CUT or keep your IC away so you can't even go do cash withdraw over the counter. :D

If you love your wife? Trust her? Then set your bank account to become a joint account using the holders "AND" signature option. Without your wife signature, you can't withdraw over the counter.

Man fall for eat/drink/fling/gamble. All these root cause? Money!!!

this idea sounds good.... will try it out thanks bro!!

SWINGER888 23-01-2019 05:52 AM

Re: Gamble problems
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Greendevil (Post 18269708)
Bro, i guess the problem is money and time, both of which you have too many and not put in good use. maybe try open sea fishing? rent a boat, enjoy the scene and keep you away from the internet and gambling LOL.

bro i tried fishing before but really dont have the patient to do it...

but yesterday is my first day i did not touch at all and hopefully this will last

i dont wanna lose all when CNY is next week

but it does linger in my mind.

btw was also called up by IO on my accounts due to the huge transfer daily and some jokes reported those agents accounts to the police

Tai_zi21 23-01-2019 10:18 AM

Re: Gamble problems
 
To my point of view la

Gambling is like smoking... u Wan to quit anot? Is all in ur mind... but when u have both time and money it become all too easy isn’t it?

There are pro gamblers in this world I believe... but online? Nah not a chance ur luck will run out someday

Cheers


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