Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
Hi people. I googled & found this discussion link informative, hidden in this ahem website. I got myself a Việt bride recently from agency & the information from the experts here are truly enlightening. I have been alone & carefree for the longest time I can recalled, till I heeled on the calling from deep inside & decided to exercise the second last option of getting a "life" partner. Now... I don't really know. It was like a flash, & there is this young woman sleeping beside me. It's not the same as before, honestly, those bonk, pay up & go days. No responsibilities whatsoever. We have communication barrier, though she can understand very little English, even less Mandarin. She learnt real slow.... I wondered how the experts here learn Việt language so fluently? I find the language difficult. We have to rely on phone translations most of the times, though she promised to learn. But she is kinda slow learner or was I impatient? She's in Singapore for a month or so, agent said confirm 3 months she can speak basic Mandarin, but I felt the agent is just talk big. She is going mid 20s & I'm into my 40s. Her sometimes kiddy ways & mood are something I'm still trying to get in terms with. I have wanted someone not so young when I found her. The even older ones just looked cunning or aggressive... (was it me again?). She is with me for a week now, & while she did try to help out household works, there's really not much she can do. I can see she's bored at times, for a young girl like her to be a stucked at home. What should she be doing when I'm at work? But I'm also worried as she has a relative working in People Park's spa salon, & she frequent there a few times. She likes it there as the Việt "sisters" are there. Is it a good idea for her to mingle with them? I envy a bro here who said her VB prefers to hang around with locals. One thing, she seemed to want a lot of times, till I can't tahan too. Is this normal? As I wanted check up to double confirm, we do not have penetrative sex yet. Those Japanese AV patterns she all can performed but I'm only a one shot gunner. All in all, it has been tiring for me, & I'm like missing those carefree days again. Any bro, experts advises/scoldings/lectures are soooo much appreciate. - Tobii
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