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Originally Posted by profx
I have get to know this Viet girl through a online dating website, she is 24 yr and told me she is a student. After chatting online for 3 month every night, i flew down to Vietnam to meet her. We went out to eat, movies, coffee and chat face to face for 1 week. So far she did not ask me to buy her anything nor did i buy her any gift.
One strange thing is when i ask her if she ok to be my girlfriend, she said she want but will not sleep with me until I married her. Out of curiosity, i ask her if she is a virgin and she said she voluntary make love with her ex-bf who is a vietnamese guy.
Wonder any experience brother know usually does vietnam girl always give more to vietnam guy compare to foreign guy when come to relationship?
Please dont zap me for my question as i am just a newbie who is looking for Vietnam partnar and want to know more about vietnamese girls.
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You are a newbie, so no problem asking. But you bring a smile to me. I wish I can still retain that part of my innocence teenage years when dating is just dating.
Well, not only for Vietnam but for most part of the world (excluding ultra religious places), modern dating for adult has evolved such that if you date a girl, you would expect to get into her pants latest on the second date (if it is too hard to convince yourself that it is possible to get it on the first date itself) or you should consider going for another target. That's how the game is played. And most women are keen to receive that kind of attention or otherwise find you a bore or a potential CARROT. Of course if you are looking for long term relationship, you might find a gem using that innocence approach.
At 40, you are considered at the right age to play the mature male candidate role that are attractive for women looking for a more stable senior boyfriend. You should not be playing a boyish innocence role, instead play the role of a more senior male who already knows what he wants, get away with what he wants and can lead her.
To answer your question. I don't think you need to know about Vietnamese girl. I think you need to know how girls operate in general. The short answer to your question is that most girls are attracted to Bad boys, Vietnamese girls are no exception. So lead her into bed if you desire to, she might be expecting you to do that despite all the outward resistance.
Good luck and happy learning. Chuc ban thanh cong.