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Originally Posted by littleleroy
Anyone here faced same situation and managed to counter? can advise? I think I Kenna Jiak GAO GAO, now seems like I can't do anything about it. My bank dry Liao. Now she asking me fly to Vietnam find her and she's sorry abt what she had done, but I can't afford to do so, my bank left a few hundred. This month no hit target (no mood to work), no money for next month.
Okay I admit, indeed I am a sillyporean.
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i remember you now after checking your past posts...in 6 months you had savings of 8k...not bad consider we dun know what your job is...to save 1k per month for any family is already very tough consider you have Viet spouse and a baby...
your story is such that your wife have not love you yet...being married to you doesn't mean love you...also having sex and baby to any VB is also not love you more...haha....typical sinkie dun understand VB culture before getting hitched...
i dun like to advise family to break up but if you have to you have to...do it early rather than later...end result is painful...sufferings for any kid...
another way is to follow bro SingViet advice....try to slow talk and get her involved in household matters include finances...never let your wife gets bored...once she is bored here...she will want to go back Wet Nam...as for finances...never allow her to manage or share all your money...guaranteed all money withdrawn sooner or later...haha...not sure any use now but you have to go thru the painful process and time will tell what is the outcome....
SGD 8k can change estimate 133 mil VND...phew that is plenty plenty of money to spent in WET NAM...^^