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Originally Posted by mutantchicken
i never undewrstand why would u just not find out who the girl is before marriage, and sure if she says you dont trust her say yes i dont trust you thats why we dating now...its seems u want to close your eyes trust trust, take a passive role, its equivalent to being lazy in love, then not take precautions and then get the girl pregnamt, in 2013 there is no excuse for unplanned pregnany, after get her pregnant then forced to be married.
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Actually bro, before marriage she wasn't like this, less possessive and not demanding, not materialistic gf. She portrayed differently from my SG gfs la, like she innocent, innocent and simple. it was shortly less than six month she was pregnant. Well, not that I didn't want to wear protection la. She didn't like it either. When I wanted to pull out, she didn't allow me to. Of cos I know the consequences and her intention la, I really love her and didn't mind as it felt right to settle down with her. Was really struggling as family objected violently to the marriage. She said she'd bring the baby back to Vietnam to raise him up if I don't want to be responsible for her. But, I bite the bullet, down this arduous road. No one to blame but myself.
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Originally Posted by mutantchicken
the fact is she prob know u better than u know her, she outsmarted you, now she can have a life free and simple holding your child for ransom in effect, when she has money she has love, if you had kept control of your money maybe you also would have love, u give it away she no longer needs you...there are many reasons and possibilities why she feels she needs to do this, but i dont think its something she did quickly, maybe she does all this spent the money and now regrets her action as she cant get more money from u so say sorry waiting to withdraw from ATM second time, who can really say...if you dont know her, how can we know, regardless how much experience
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She really did outsmart me. As you can see, I'm actually not very smart dealing with wives la, I don't know how to play mind game too. I'm trying to learn from you bros out there. I always thought she innocent and simple. When I told her my parents run a small shop, she thought it was a pushcart. However now I could be wrong
perhaps the love was never true. She probably married me cos she think I'm loaded? I don't know, Possibility that she had spent all my money, that's why asking me to forgive her... I shall find out more but I need her back with my son. I certainly do not wish my son w/o a mother, I have been slow talking her hoping her to change for our future.... But being vbs, they are super stubborn! I give her logic, she don't want to listen, treat like I farting wind. Sigh, bros out there, pls know your bx for at least 2yrs. True story, don't end up like me haha suck thumb
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Originally Posted by mutantchicken
Asking out opinion prob would have been better b4 the damage has been done. What is your job "FA"..i dont know what that means
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Will definitely be asking for opinions... Very hard to fathom what they thinking, definitely not for people with weak heart like me.
FA= Financial advisor. Name Sounds nicer nia but insurance agent la, don't avoid me! hahaha
Well, most of my colleagues are females and she will be very jealous and sensitive, when I come home late, she will think I go find girls. (-.-) Shake head