let me tell you what i mean by strong hard tactics and why VB not meant for the soft hearted men...
when a VB asked to do RAW...give her the conditions to agree...
1 - take birth control pills
2 - if pregnant - she wants to abort then pay for all the charges and repect her wish
3 - if pregnant - she wants to keep baby then tell her she has to ensure she looked after baby and she cannot leave baby with her mother. Pay all the charges and baby maintenance.
4 - when baby old enough for education then baby goes to singapore to study and she cannot go
5 - tell her she cannot use baby to threaten you and no special treatment if she behaves unreasonable
all these above told to her to agree before you proceed to do RAW sex...never ever let Vb use baby as threat to you...
6 - test DNA to ensure baby is yours
I understand the above is not easy to carried out but you have to do it...if gal dump you then you can walk away without feeling guilty...
above dun apply to WL...never feel guilty when you had paid her...