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Originally Posted by mutantchicken
here you really have 3 simple choices
1 forever be her slave, for the sake of having access to your child and your child having a mother.
2 somehow getiing yiou baby back and then giving her the choice of either joinimg you on your own terms
3 letting her go with baby and when she is ready go back to you...2 and 3 i would suggest you to lie and say how you are poor financial diffucilty, only then if she comes back it for the right reeasons other wise 6mths later u will be back here asking for opinions as she hhas again runaway
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Thanks bro, will take your advise! Previously loaned a huge sum of my savings to my bestfriend then but money being root of all evil he took my money and refused to pay up. Well it happened twice to two friends as they were telling me their house got ah long come splash paint, the other guy say bank come seal their house etc happened during same period. So borrow from bank for marriage as back then got pressure to by my bx family. I was indeed doing ops in bank but changed to FA. Haha I just wanted to help luh, I mean afterall my bestfriend right, who knows refused to return me money when I need it. you can say I'm just stupid / honest / naive, sigh no such thing as 兄弟.