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Originally Posted by sungsung
Im female in my early 30s. Totally loss interest with men. Mostly because they like to go for pay sex. I find them very unhygienic. Pardon me for saying that all men.
Any men here don't like to go pay sex that can chg my view to men?
Any ladies have the same thinking as mine?
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Totally get you. Question of hygiene aside, I tend to lose interest in a girl when I know that more than 2 guys has been in and out between her legs before me, so prostitutes literally make me cringe. But thats just me.
But when it comes to the question of payment, seriously, it costs more to chase and woo a girl into bed than just throwing a couple of hundred down for a single fuck. You know what I'm talking about. You girls don't exactly have cheap tastes. I don't mean you're all gold-diggers though. I've met a fair share of independent women who takes pride of being able to earn their own living, and they were scrumptious.
Men are logical creatures. And since we pay for sex either way, paying less for a guaranteed fuck is most certainly a more rational choice than paying more and investing time for sex which is by no means a sure thing in the end. Since i walk this path, I can tell you that it is infuriating when it happens.
I happen to find pleasure in having sex with women I know deeply, which is another reason I find the prospect of fucking prostitutes unappealing. And finding out that the woman I took the time to know deeply just doesn't want to take the next step, well, that's a huge waste of my time and money right there.
You get the idea. In other words, for most people the alternative to paying for sex implies taking a risk. And to them, it's just not worth it.
"Aha!" You say. "It's your own fault. You shouldn't have pursued a woman just for sex!"
My dear, if a guy ever tells you that he is into you but not for sex, he is either lying or telling the truth. If he is lying, he's a scoundrel. If he's telling the truth, he's either gay and ashamed about it, or he has an inferiority complex which you can be sure will pop up and haunt you further down the relationship, or he's a religious nut.
Mark my words, be very, very, very cautious about the nuts. I've found that religious girls are really sweet, but for the guys, the more religious they are, the more insecure and bigoted they tend to be. There are of course exceptions.
Eh, before anyone zaps me, I probably should say that I am of course not talking about your religion. Unless, you're a christian. Then yeah, i'm totally talking about you. Zap away... If you do though, you should know that your girls are real screamers in bed.
Oh, and TS, in conclusion, if a guy tells you he's into you and not interested in sex, hold on to your panties and run the other direction screaming. You'll thank me in the future. And I don't know why you're worried about hygiene. I thought hookers in Singapore have mandatory health checks and all that. You should see the ones in malaysia. Nasty.