VB naturally short sighted, impatient, want to see instant reward and never plan for future. (unless some seniors here teach them to see long term)
Hence you give them 6 months; their true nature will surface. And that is when you can tell whether she can be your girlfriend.
For marrying I think at least 2 years together..... hence 30 months from knowing to marrying. (H88 guide me)
Cannot rush; otherwise you get into deep shit. A hole so deep you never find the bottom.
And we are in year 2014; don't need a married cert to confirm anything..... if got baby just give money let VB raise the kid.
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Originally Posted by Seletar
Know this vb and recently I went to her kampong stayed over night. Her parent house really cramp, no bed room, many people stay. I volunteered to buy her a bike but she said her priority is a nha rieng because really no place to stay. I asked her to find out the cost and let me know but she worried I can't cope.. that is the story.
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