Hi everyone,
I'm new to the forum but after reading and observing for a month, I've gained a bit of confidence to post this request. But please be gentle with your comments.
==If you're not interested in reading the wall of text, just skip down to TL;DR below==
I'm very new to cheong-ing. I only started a few months back after ending a relationship and getting deluded with relationships. In the two months from then till now, I've tried quite a fair bit. In most of my trysts, I would get the FL to come to my hotel for overnight (except for some local FLs who are sadly too expensive for overnight). I look for outcall for privacy reason; I fear that I will feel damn embarrassed if I encounter a bro at a FL's place or if someone sees me there. I tend to go for overnight because I like to cuddle and talk after the act. I think I might even enjoy that more than bonking itself.
But while my experience so far is satisfactory, I cannot help but feel that there is still something lacking. I would like to look for something more regular and less transactional (even though there's still money involved) with a closer feeling. Somehow with local FLs, I'm a little hesitant to ask them about normal life as I'm afraid they may get angry.
I would like to find someone I can connect with but a) I know finding a soulmate on a forum is difficult and b) I would also like to have some bonking involved so it's not just a platonic friendship (and I'm too inexperienced to be anyone's fb - though I'm willing to learn
) so I'm willing to pay.
==TL;DR==
First, my details. If the ladies are put off by them, then this can save them from reading further I guess.
Race: Chinese
Age: 30 (but I look younger I think)
Height: 1.68m
Weight: 105kg (sorry, I'm obese.
but I'm not morbidly obese and I'm quite huggable)
Financial capabilities: I've a fairly well-paying job. Not rich by any means but comfortable.
Marital status: single, unattached. no other half to bother you.
Looks: not handsome at all. but if you can get past the fact that I'm fat, I'm not unpleasant looking.
Brief description: I'm inquisitive and would love to know everything about you. I'm extremely introverted and quiet but I'm a good listener and am humorous. I'm fairly well-read and have a functional knowledge of lotsa useless things/areas. I like to read, watch movies, swim, cycle (would love to have swim/cycle dates) and eat (oops) (and play chess but no one cares about that, right?).
Things I'm looking for (in the girl):
Gender: Female (this is important)
Hair: long and silky please. preferably at least chest length. (my personal fetish)
Age: mid-20s to early 30s please. I actually prefer not to have ladies who are too young. Don't want to look like a cradle-snatcher.
Looks: pleasant looking. don't have to be a model or head-turner.
Race: Chinese or Malay
Height: I don't care. Even if you're super tall and like to wear heels, I don't mind if you don't mind.
Body build: slim to average
Boobs: prefer at least a B but not a deal-breaker.
Don't mind casual smokers but not too heavy please.
Don't mind drinkers or tattoos.
Personality: easy-going and cheerful please.
Things I'm looking for (the dates):
I'm not looking for exclusivity. Honestly, I'm not rich enough to pay $5k to keep a girl all to myself. I'm okay with someone who is dating another person at the same time (and so for our mutual safety, I won't require raw) as long as she gives me her attention during our time together. I'm looking for someone who can meet once a week during the weekend for half a day. Activities can vary; it doesn't always have to be about bonking.
If you've read all the way till here, I thank you for your kind attention! If any lady is interested, please pm me with your email (unless you would like to converse entirely via pm), a brief intro/description of yourself and your expected compensation. Currently working freelancers are welcome (if you don't mind connecting with me on a more personal level)!