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Originally Posted by MIFAcafe
I think Singaporeans below 40 should not consider a Viet wife. Immature man with a shallow pocket is a sure lose combination.
If one have deep pocket, to give or not to give is optional. As money at already there. Wife will be scare to go and work worry the well to do husband dump her.
regardling the housing problem, I always show picture of my house to Vb. And I told them I still owe bank lot of money. Haha.
I always make sure they don't deserve to get a lot. If not happy please F off. Don't spoil my mood.
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I want to share another experience with all.
A good friend of mine, mid 40s, had married a VB love at 1st sight. This is his 4th marriage. The 1st and 2nd marriage, both wife die of cancer at very young age. 3rd divorce. This friend of mine consider rich as he work hard to get his business thrive. Now in live in a Semi D in After marriage, this vb need not work or do anything as he had employed a maid. He had 3 kids. The vb had 1 kid. My friend don't mind to bring the vb's son to Singapore. 1st 6 months, everything was just fine, but after 6 months, the vb get jealous very easily. Almost everyday, they quarrelled, becos my friend didn't pick up her call during working hours and kept saying he had another vb outside. My friend got so frustrated and 1 day, he just burst out. He chased her out of the house. Throw all her belongings out of the house and told her he will get a lawyer for divorce. Thus, this create a scene and police came. The vb told the police officers that she had been beaten by my friend but luckily, my friend house are install with CCTV. The police had no choice but to ask the vb to leave. She had nothing with at that times thus my friend even offer 1K cash and ask her leave immediately. After few days, with several help from the vb's friend, they patched back but with several conditions which my friend had stated.
After they had patched back, my friend, together with her went to his frequent joint where the vb's bro in law was there too.The bro in law & his friends wanted to find trouble with my friend bcos my friend didn't really wanted to attend his wedding ceremony in VN and he taught that it was my friend's vb call her sister that this sinkie man was drinking and hugging other vb. The reason my friend do not want to attend the wedding is his vb's sister had a husband in vn and marrying a Sinkie man at the same time. The sinkie don't know that vb she marrying still have not divorce her husband. In the end, left with no choice, my friend call several friends come down too. When the vb's bro in law friends saw such a big group came down, they changed. They scold this bro in law and keep apologised that he is drunk. Luckily, my friend just wanted to drink and relax, he let the matter rest.
I had been in this scene for about 10 years. I had saw too many good and bad example of vbs. Some are too possessive, some get easily get jealous, some are damn big liars, some are damn trouble maker, some are really bad mouth, etc. Thus, finding vbs as a partner really need time and patience. I told my bx before, don't test my patience and don't do things behind my back. If I find out anything, just don't regret and sorried