[curious76]

Singapore girls also the same pattern.. Marriage is a gamble. Sometime can win sometime can lose.

Originally Posted by SingViet

Relating a real life case of a friend of mine, a tour bus driver with a Viet spouse. He married the viet spouse around 6 years ago and they have 2 kids. He turned his back against his mother because of his bx and MIL couldn't get along well with his mother. They have their own 3 room flat now. MIL flies in very often to take care of his children. For the past 6 years, he has been trying to get PR for his wife but to no avail.

he has always been telling me that his bx treats him real good. Always stay home take care of children and cook his favourite viet noodles when he comes back from work. But of course, he had sent money to his MIL to let them built house and buy motorbike in the province. His wife mixed around with a group of viet spouse who all have singapore bfs outside, but his wife reassures him that she is not their kind.

6 months ago, his bx got her PR and things started to change. His bx started to go out with friends to karaoke to drink till late night, leaving children home with the MIL. He argued with his bx and she said since he is not earning enough , he should let her go out to work with her friends as VSOP promoter in the bar. He is mid 40s while wife is 26. Wife started work as he had no choice. As time goes by, he realised that his wife started to post more `suggestive pose' photos on her facebook. He couldn't take it and argued with his bx again. His bx told him `if you cannot feed me, don't control me'. He regretted getting PR for his wife and now the marriage seems to be breaking down.

The wife really got good patience to wait for 6 years to get PR before her pattern come out. Simply VVVerry Viet !!