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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
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Originally Posted by rachgu
Interesting article, there are both good and bad commentaries below the news.
Some taiwanese agree on the article but some disagree.
One taiwanese claim her bro viet wife stay on with him during the time he become poor.
Another taiwanese claim olden days viet wife marry to Taiwan are more hardworking and can take hardship, but the young one nowsaday are more lazy and greedy. How true?
I have read an interview from straits times on vietnam wife marry to singapore many years back. It mention some of the husband dont have stable job and 1 drug addict went to jail leaving the viet wife working to take care of their children and the man aged parents, the wife did not run away. It protrait a good side for vietnamese wife. How true is it?
My own thoughts, maybe wrong, there are many bad viet girl just out to milk the foreign man for quick gains. But there are also hardworking and good girls. I have friend marry viet wife become good wife and mother.
But many thing share in this thread are...... some bros go fish girls who work as Whores and expect them become good gf, and some very old man go Vietnam fish for greedy young girls and expect true love from them.
And think about this, how high the chances for a young girl to love a old man more than 20 years age gap? Anyone can answer this? It hurts many people but it is reality. If age not a problem, why dont find girl in own country?
End up old man and cheongster just attract the greedy young girls & WL who just want money from man most of the time. And thus in their eyes, most viet girls are always bad because they always end up meet bad girls, they have lower opportunity to meet the good girls due to either their old age or the place they fish like KTV and cafe.
Just my 2 cents.
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well said bro. the same goes 4 other nationalities foreign girls. not to mention there are other factors like culture, language and mindset difference. the girl can say i love you to the husband everyday but see him as an alien in her mind.
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