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Originally Posted by Hurricane88
This is a typical case...dun think you knew your wife well before marriage... 
One of the reason she wanted divorce is she had a bf which you dun know...or you had been caught red handed with another woman...
Hopefully your wife may automatic come back if she finished using all her money...then you can decide what to do...when there is first means there is second time...
If you want your child back then you need to engage a lawyer to fight for your child during divorce...pls read up women charter law in Singapore...gather enough proof of your wife infidelity if any...before fighting the case...worst case is claimed to hv access of child at least once a week...good luck...
The above is IMHO...not to anger anyone...pls skip if you dun like...^^ |
Yes, i rushed into the marriage cos we of shotgun. Honestly i wouldnt have married her cos i know she isnt the type to adapt to life in spore. At times during our marriage, i felt like i was raising 2 babies.
not sure if she is cheating on me in vn now but i definitely didnt cheat on her since we were together. Weird thing is she said she filed for divorce in vietnam. Is that even possible that the vn courts can dissolved a marriage registered in spore? We never registered our marriage in vn at all. From wat i read about vn custody laws, kids under 3 automatically go to the mother even if the mother is a useless woman like her.
and i dont think i treated her badly at all during our marriage. her allowance from me is 2k a mth and thats for her own spending only. groceries and stuff is paid by me. She is mad about branded bags, shoes and stuff before marriage and she is still the same after the baby. Her group of friends are also fucked up in the head about these branded stuff and she has more than a few friends who work in the flesh trade to support their lifestyles.
Im not too sure wat is really going on in her head. Is she taking the child in order to squeeze more money later or are viet women that crazy to divorce in a whim of moment?