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Originally Posted by curious76
I can tell you there is no faithfulness when one is hungry.. haha.. But some VBs i will say is look for her own problem.. Like mine did..
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Honestly every gal would want to help the family to have a better live and themselves also a better life. If cannot find in native country, got foreigner to marry why not? Similarly, would you want the best for your family?
If you read the 1000 of pages before hand, family culture is strong in vn where bf or husband rank 3rd or last place depending on how many siblings they have. That is unless what some bro have done, "re-educate" their wives to a more rational or Singaporean way of thinking.
As to faithfulness or not, it is dependent on the nature of relationship one have in the first place and where it started. If it started in a ktv or disco, it start on the ground of $$$ chances of a good foundation is not there. Simple reason is just built on $$$. If you met the gal in a cafe in vn, then it could be again different. And slowly build the relationship up.
Before we condemn all vb for being unfaithful, can we be faithful first? If not, who are we to say they are not faithful. That why i say the question it depends on what you want from relationship and your commitment from it.
Bro Curious: Learn to let go and find a new gal in your life. Continued bitterness on it does not help. Trust me i been through what you went through and it took time to heal. Look where i am now. Learnt to be smarter and know what i want. If i cannot find, then change a new gal. Just an advice.