folks,
just watched Phoenix channel(No.50) last night on cable, they were interviewing a China professor who specialise in studying sexual behaviour.
according to him, a normal marriage must have sex & love. If short of either one, then it's abnormal marriage.
personally,i feel that for a wife to with-hold sex from the husband on the excuse of kids, work etc is all but bullshit excuses. If it's bcos of her losing confidence in her body after child birth, still can salvage. if it's any other reason, then depends how well you guys can "lun" already. i know i will not accept such behaviour.
FYI, i'm married & expecting my 2nd kid, hopefully, i won't be adding on to this post any further.
