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Originally Posted by newyorker88
Yes they do...
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If they do,then do they have any big event during the Hungry Ghost Festival month,eg .staged traditional opera in the evening,going to temple to pray to ancestor,large scale burning of incense etc etc ?
Thank you.
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Originally Posted by newyorker88
It is best not to let others know who u are, in the internet.
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This i agree. Its BEST to keep personal information as personal as possible. Applies to people who interacted with me (via PM and other communication means) and those who joined/linked with me in trips. I dont disclose their nicks or anything i feel is personal,unless they want to be known to the public themselves. Its a form of basic humanly respect to the another person.
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Originally Posted by newyorker88
Sam boss is right on this matter. What you do, you post here, n people can gossip or use it to harm you.
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Quoting from what the policeman always like to say,"You have the right to remain,but whatever you say will be taken against you". What i say in the internet is going to stay on the internet "nearly forever". My words can hurt,and it could also heal. I hope to let my word "heals".
Not forgetting there will be people who understand what i write differently.I will constantly need to try my best to be as considerate as possible to how another person feels in order to avoid unnecessary misunderstanding.
Most quarrels and fights over the internet occurs due to the lack of consideration and understanding of another person. When they read and shoot too quickly w/o proper understanding,negative emotions emerge and will cause their reading to become selective ;and when they start to choose what they wish to read from an entire paragraph/post w/o 1st trying to understand the whole context and thats when the battle starts. In short,its call reading between the lines.
Notice i dont reply other bros posting immediately even when i was online? Reason is most time,it is just sharing and learning posts,if it is not exactly very urgent,so i will usually just take my time and make sure i try my best to choose my words as carefully as possible to minimise any form of misunderstanding. No impulsive reply for me too.No negative personal emotion on myself should be generate during my replies to another person. And if i know by replying to another person,i stand a chance to start a negative argument which may likely lead to a quarrel (or fight),i will not even bother to read twice and will completely ignore the post. Again,in short i will do my best not to reply to any post that i feel and think is going to result in negativity and/or goes completely out of thread topic.I cannot stop people from talking,but i can still choose to stop talking to people.
To me,negativity only creates more negativity. It is likewise for being positive. And positivity is constructive,negativity are usually...destructive.
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Originally Posted by newyorker88
meeting with other people? there is nothing wrong, but don't let them know how u fuck a girl or what you did that you don't want others to know.
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Reminds me of the Shaolin 1st 18 patterns...hehehe...