[justguy]

Sharing my sad ending story here.

I have been going to viet joints in sg for many years and never got hook deeply before by any of the girls. 2 year ago it happened.
I was attracted to her look before I got into the room .. later mummy brought her (T) in and of cozy choice is her.
T was the same as any other girls I sat with before. Pretty and playful. Didn't think much about it then.

So my fren wanted to bring a girl for hotel and askT if she wanna go with me as well. She agreed. So the 4 of us went out for supper together before going to the hotel.

T was quite green and mentioned she didn't go to hotel with customer only her bf. The typical kc hook. For some reason she was successful because the sex was really good .she make u feel that u can make her Cum more than u make any other girls did.

I dated her over the next few days before I flew off for my job oversea. We kept in contact throughout my trip of 2 month she also went back to Vietnam and came over for her second trip 2 month later.

So I met her when I am back in sg and we went hotel everyday with me paying her everytime to make sure I keep it a sex transaction.

But slowly she crawled into my heart.. we became a couple before I left for my next oversea work trip.

I requested that she stop working at the ktv with me supporting her
She agreed and went back Vietnam with me sending her money every month .
As new couples I wanted to be with her badly hence I brought her to where I am working at and stayed for 2 month together. That was the best time of our life and seal our relationship.
things were good after she went back 2 months later. But we can meet only once every 3 month due to oversea works and she don't want to travel so far and so long again.

Hence at the end of my contract I requested to be stationed in sg instead. This begin our nightmare..
with the change in work location , my salary was reduced by 2k per month. This seriously affected my monthly allowance for her.
With our 1 year relationship, I expected her to understand my difficulties. After some quarrels she finally accepted that I might not be able to help her as much. She decided to reduce her monthly expenditure and also find a permanent job.
things got back to normal and I was able to visit her every month now .

all this while she was bugging me marry her so she can come sg to work. I told her only after buying a hse for her stay then I will bring her over . We agreed and it will take me ard 1 year to get a hse when I reach 35 years old.

but fate like to make things difficult. She lost her job and did not have a income. With my reduced allowance things became difficult for her. She started blaming me and ask for more allowance. I tried giving her as much as I can but she was nv happy .

soon she don't let me stay at her room citing she gotta share rooms to reduce cost.
with the increase expenditure of hotel , I got even less money to spend on her.

Soon everything starts falling apart, she wanted to go back working in ktv which I rejected. Resulting In many quarrels.

soon she stopped replying msg as frequently as before. Resulting in even more quarrels. Things were going downhills.

2 months back , a photo of her n a guy in close proximity, lean against each other, appeared on her other fb. She had 2 fb , 1 for close frens and me the other for her customers and other frens.

She insist he is is a brother to her. As I am not in the other fb I can't see much also beside that 1 photo. Trusting her I did not press on. Soon she got more and more distance. Disappear for the whole day before replying my msg. This result in even more quarrels.

eventually she call for a time out. I didn't want to but no choice as she forced it on me.

As it was my grandma birthday soon, I took the chance to test her by asking her to come for the dinner.
She agreed so I tot she still wants to be with me. Then I bought the ticket and arrange everything. Before that I told her if she don't want to be with me then no need to come for the dinner. She was switching between coming and not coming before agreed finally to come. My mistake to trust her again.

On the day she arrived in sg, she told me she wants to be friend and will not be going for the dinner. She took advantage of my love for her to get a free ticket to sg. Although I am hurt I still tried to work things out with her. Eventually she agreed to be back if I up her allowance to 1.5k per month.

Heart overtake mind and I agreed. She was very good to me after that. We went shopping and have sex after.
next day she going back to Vietnam. She showed me her attitude again treating me like dirt.

I could not endured and broke off with her at the airport. She started msg me after she reach Vietnam but I refuse to reply her. This went on for a week until I finally heart over mind again and replied her.

she say sorry and ask me give her a chance. So I agreed. I decided to test her by adding her other fb. She added me to show she have nothing to hide. But maybe she forgot she got many close photo of her with this other guy in the fb.
I questioned her about it and her reply was to end our relationship instead .

now She stopped replying to any of my msg and deleted me from her fb. 2 years of love , investment and commitment down the drain like waste water..
leaving me a poor and broken man