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Originally Posted by francesco
well she used to work here legally, we still keep in touch,
and i have made it clear from day 1 that we can only be "friend".
of cos everyone loves free stuff but i also don't want to be a cheapo 😛,
am thinking to give 5k baht/day, I guess that is "reasonable" eh? of cos i will bear other expenses (dining etc) as well...unless she insists otherwise 😛
lol thanks for the reply bros
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Bro Tony made a good point- it really depends on what kind of relationship you have with her, and your explanation is not detailed enough to give you a good advice.
There is a chance that giving her money may be deemed as an insult, especially when you already said she is not a working girl. Funny thing is some thai girls that come Sg work in G club don't view themselves as working girls (yah, go figure). I assume that's where you met her.
My best guess is she see you as a gik-someone fun to hang out with, bring her out for fanciful dinner, have 'fun' at night and without any serious commitment.
So if I were in your shoes, I would not offer her any money, UNLESS she specifically asks for it. Usually those that want money in reciprocation would either start by subtlely hinting about having to pay room rent, need to pay bills etc.The more blatant girls would say parent or friend sick and need money for hospital bill. Others will simply ask if can give her taxi money, or money to buy phone, pay bills etc.
If she doesn't do any of that bullshit, then don't offer her money. Instead, if you feel guilty, buy her small gifts or offer to bring her friends out to party or for dinner. You will make her look good in front of her friends, and hopefully she will reciprocate and make you feel 'good' at night
If I see her as a gik too, and she starts asking for money, I would just pay her 3-5k baht (assuming you already up her) for her 'companionship and move on. To me, she's a working girl, and next time she asks you out, expect to pay for her 'companionship'.