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Originally Posted by Satki5
Bros I need help and advice from all the SEASONED samsters.
Hi bros. I got a problem with a Vb. Ok, the story goes like this. I know her from a ktv and the 2 months she was here, she said that i was the second man that she had sex with. Subsequently after she goes back to vietnam, I went to look for her 2 times and had the regular bonking and meals etc. After the 2nd trip, she totally cut all ties such as delete the WeChat and block me totally. She is a 20 yr girl while I am in my mid thirties. After asking from my friend to find out the reason for the sudden change in attitude, I realise she said that I did not help her in terms of giving her money as she said that she do not work in Vietnam and needs money to survive. As a typical Singaporean, time is the most important thing we can give to our gf so I think by visiting her monthly is the best gift I can give to her. There are plans to marry her but now. Haizzzzz...... Where did the r/s go wrong? Despite numerous attempts to give her money this and that now, she is sibei heartless and refuse to have any contact with me now. What should I do? How can I get her back? My heart aches so much whenever I think of her.
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Don't waste your time on her anymore. VB tend to be greedy.
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Originally Posted by Satki5
$3k-$5k is too much. I do not earn as much as the bros here do. I am just an average working class Singapore man.
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Not everyone here earn much too. There are still many others flowers you can pick; why waste time on such vb.
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Originally Posted by okcis
Hi all, can someone help me out. Based on past experiences, is it possible for my bx to still cheat on me even though I see her everyday? Also how many times can she enter singapore ?
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Originally Posted by okcis
I am sorry if my post somehow offend anyone here. I am genuinely asking for help. I understand where you guys are coming from. I have been reading the past entries on this forum and I have seen many bad experiences with WL. But I just want to know if there are cases where their bx have brought them to see the parents. I may seem stupid for asking such questions here but right now, I really really can't see any "holes" and the family treat me well too. I'm sorry if there are any similar stories been posted here before, I may have missed them.
Can these WL acting skills be really that good? Or do the parents usually help in acting with their daughter? They seemed genuine when talking about marriage. And is it possible I am not the only guy she brings back home? I guess I need more reasons (and probably any similar real life experiences from bros here) to help convince myself to get me out of this trap.
I went to visit her in Vietnam and she came back with me a week ago. Thus, have to go back to working as a WL. During the time when she was in Vietnam, we video call each other every day. And when I visited her, she was together with me for the whole week. Is there any possibility that she may have another boyfriend and yet was still able to stay with me everyday when I was there?
I am 24 this year and of course, I don't intend to marry her right now yet. Thank you bros for taking the time to reply me. I am sorry again if it offends you guys in any way.
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All older Samster like Naemlo & H88 had tried to give you simple advice but if u continue to ask; they will give u sarcastic advice so that you can't take it. This sarcastic advice wanted you to wake up your ideas. You are only 24 this year and yet seen the world of Vietnam yet. There are good and bad vb but chances of bad is very high. Like everyone said; many need $$$ to help their family. Like me; i had meet many different vb. 2 of them even willing to give me thousand of dollars when I in need. You should know life in VN is not as good as Spore. They hoped that they could come to Spore & had a better life. I had shared many real story before about good VB; but bad vb stories tend to be more cos good story pple tend not to share. You are still young; you got to think more far. You will not be able to support her after your marriage. She will work. If she dun mind work in Hawker or food court or maybe she is good in manicure; yes you can consider her. But if she intend to work in KTV or beer promoter; you can forget abt it. 9 out of 10 who return to KTV end up in divorce. 2 of my friends married vb recently; 1 went to manicure; and the other help her father in law sell food in the market.
Last week; I went to Taman Johor Jeya food court; saw 2 vb working with their husband selling food there. As I can speak vnese; I talk to them in vnese. Know that they had married for few years and had been helping their husband selling food. Get a wife who can suffer together with you