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Originally Posted by ndnd
Most WL from Joints dont fast. How to fast when they are having sex in day time.
For those who only start work after the fasting timing, then maybe, but again, normally they will think, since already working this in Ramadan period, whats the point of fasting..
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My experience in Batam (just there) taught me that not all things "forbidden" by Muslim rules are really "taboo" for the average people. At least my experience with Indonesian Muslim ladies (in Malaysia or stricter areas it can be different) taught me the following scale of prohibition priorities, where the higher is the number, the stricter is the prohibition:
1) Not wearing hijab
2) Having sex NSA ("no strings attached")
3) Drinking alcohol
4) Not fasting on Ramadan
5) Eating pork
In other words, many Muslim girls in Batam do not wear hijab, but virtually ZERO Muslim ladies would consider to eat pork.
I met several ladies who do not wear hijab, but are strictly faithful to their husband. (fail 1, ok 2-5)
It is possible, yet extremely unlikely, to meet a lady with hijab in a mall and take her to the room. Notmally it's impossible.
I met several ladies who had sex with me without thinking twice, or were sex workers, but they were drinking only soft drinks at pub or disco. Strictly NO alcohol, but they have sex every day. (fail 1-2, ok 3-5)
Most of the ladies who had sex with me, and were also drinking cocktails, strictly fast during Ramadan. Out of question to eat something at day time. Fasting is very important. You can drink alcohol often, but on Ramadan you'll comply to fasting.(fail 1-3, ok 4-5)
Finally, eating pork is really taboo. The only people from Muslim family who I have seen eating pork are some who abandoned totally the religious beliefs. (fail 1-4, never 5)