One of my ex-gf once tried that with me, after moving in with me for 6 months, the first six months were bliss, sex every night and morning. BJ in the shower, doggie while watching TV, etc.
Then as usual, she got to know this bunch of women at work and started talking and coming back with, "you know lucy from accounts? she doesn't do BJs!" or "Stephanie, Lucy, Emma and Liz says that my energy should be better channelled into other activities rather than letting you pump me all the time..." yeh, better activities like going to the spa, salon, shoe shopping etc, bitches...
So one day i said to her straight, if we're not gonna fuck, then dun complain or get in the way should i go out and fuck someone else. She didn't believe me, so I did and she moved out. Now I'm living with a gal who loves sex and football.... brilliant!