Hi bros and sis, something came to my mind and I think that this would provide a good spin to the title of this thread. Has the level of sex gone down as the years go by be more to do with the reducing sex appeal of your spouse over the years? And that being tired, frustrated from work and all that jazz just a cover?
Again let me start off by relating my own story. Before I was married, I was this strongly built, athletic guy. Very active in sports and games. OK in the looks department. But a few years back, I had this football injury that, well to put it simply, retired me permanent from most games. And with age, some of us tend to put on some weight. I did. Almost 15kilos, actually. Now, my wife, on the other hand, who has always been the slim type, after giving birth to our son, quickly got back her figure.
This is bordering on paranoia, I know, but is my flabby appearance now, the reason for her to be so put off by sex with me???
This happens to both guys and gals. Gals may find it hard to return to their size XS clothing after a baby or two. Do you think your hubby is put off by your appearance?
Some gals here might have some input to this argument. Sigh.... I may open another bigger wound here.. but again, curiosity...
