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Originally Posted by Shame
Hi bro, I’m similar to your predicament. Mid 40s single, no luck with women. Come home from work everyday to 4 walls and feeling lonely & depressed wondering if I would be alone forever. It’s especially heart-wrenching when u see all your friends have settled down with kids or seeing couples in public. I read the statistics more singaporeans are staying single but I look around and it seems I’m the rare few.
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Being married Don mean all your problems magically disappear. I'm married but in a loveless marriage. Quarrel with wife every day, expects me to do all the chores, take care of kid, pay for bills and still not satisfied. She has low sex drive and when I want to initiate things she act until like it's a chore so end up i also don't wanna have sex With her. And when quarrel she will say until machiam like it's my fault. Three years since she pregnant and the number of sex we have is less than 20 times. Only reason why I still with her is for my kid.
At work I also not doing well, worked 10 years and only had promoted once before. Tried looking for new jobs but never got any offers. Y brother is a bum and we don't talk much. Only time we talk is when he wans me to help him do something. He once owe me $200 for six months yet he was working and not like hard up or anything.
I Don really have much going for me except for my kid. But can't afford to die cos my kid still young and my parents are old and retired.
oh well life goes on.