[leakypipes]

TS, listen to bradplay and devil666. Both make solid points.

When I was in NS, i was curious how all my buddies like got lots of money go clubbing so often. Spend time talking to them, and realise that they don't always spend a lot. They're not rich. But they also smart enough to know cannot rely on ns money only. So some will do "alternative" businesses which aren't exactly allowed in ns.

The other thing I realise is the girls they are with at that time also don't expect them to spend a lot. It's like everyone is struggling so they kind of seek comfort in one another.

Of course I had the other type of NS friends with parental finance. Higher spending power. Attract a different kind of girl.

I was somewhere in middle. I wasn't rich. I also introverted. I went out with them sometimes. Learnt how to make my money last and yield good benefit in clubs.

most of all, I didn't think so much about the sex. If I really horny, there is porn and my hands.

You're still young. Don't think of sex as the goal. Sex should be for fun not source of stress. Focus on developing yourself.