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Old 09-02-2007, 06:52 PM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by Happywheel View Post
sure why not...more advice better
my friend want to take loan to help his wife
kena fuck by my friends and me.....i think he really in deep shit
some more he tell us it too late for him to quit...
Bro Happywheel, as you didn't give much info on this case, i can only come to this conclusion.

Firstly, your friend got to know the gal at Joo Chiat or thru marriage agency.

Secondly; Possible Scenarios

Scenario ONE

Its so common for Vietnamese gals to con foreigner guys. Let me relate one incident to you. My wife told me that when she first got to know me, her friends asked her to sign on a piece of fake IOU and bring the IOU to me for money. They asked my wife to get from me 10K USD. They said my wife will get 50% and they will get 50%. But my wife refused. There will always be some vietnamese gal out there who wants to con foreigner guys. Ask your guy friend, has he seen his wife borrowing money from someone else after she married him? Put it simply, she will run off after she gotten the money from your friend.

Scenario TWO

The family of the gal actually owed the money to the loan sharks in vietnam and wants the gal to pay for them as they think that she can always ask from the husband. If this is the case, there is no need to pay for them. You pay for them once, they will come again in a few months time. How much money your friend will have to help her family pay off debts?

Scenario THREE

The gal is actually a working gal. She has borrrowed money from the mamasan to come singapore to work. So now after marrying your friend, she doesn't work anymore and has no income to pay the mamasan. The mamasan will go after her family in vietnam. I have personally know a mamasan who lends money to Vietnamese gal to go abroad to work. For example, for every dollar she lends to the gal, she will get back $1.25. So its 25% interest. If the gal doesn't pay, she will engage gangsters to go after the gal's family.

These are the possible scenarios i can think of. Cannot comment too much as not much info is given. As for the answers for the other questions, bro namelo has answer already