[chirpydog]

Originally Posted by Didactus

I’m 25 and a virgin. Never had a gf and all my girl friendships are platonic. I’m also not really the type to flirt much less look for girls just to fuck or have a ONS with. But I once thought to myself before, since I’m not getting laid anytime soon, why not wait for marriage ? Over the years, this expectation went down. If I had a gf who was open to it, I’d lose my virginity to her. It even went to if a girl is willing to have sex with me, I’d just do it. Until I thought, if I’m single with absolutely no love interests when I’m 25, I’ll just pay for it.

Usually this would be a no brainer, but then I keep thinking about how I first got a bj from a thai girl I booked when I was 19. The experience was great no doubt, but the depression and feeling of guilt that followed after was crippling. I spent the next hour just wandering around the area wondering “What am I doing with my life”. And I also spent the next week trying to spend as much time as possible with my family cos I felt so sinful and lost my innocence. Of course, everything went back to normal the next week and I was already looking for the next girl.

But I’m just afraid the post-sex depression would hit me 10x harder just because I lost my virginity by paying for it. And also sex still feels kinda sacred and taboo to me. I’m not the most religious guy but I grew up with my relatives on my father’s side who is very religious. I guess it’s still kinda stuck. And also, I’m a sentimental person. I’m not sure how I would feel about losing my virginity to someone I’m not emotionally connected to.

I still want to finally have sex. And I don’t see myself getting a gf or getting married anytime soon. And my 25th birthday is also coming up. I know I can’t get a definitive answer but I’d just like to know your thoughts or advice

Keep your virginity. Practice on a Tenga and give your virgin wife a hell of a good time on the wedding night. Your marriage will last till your last breathe.