[QUOTE=prodigal2chance;19507364]1) Danger of ML lifestyle ....Cont
Hi guys,before I continue, I understand some ppl finds my post irritating, irrelevant to this thread..agree, but please bear with me awhile,... I should be done by end Dec, after which I prob will go MIA for good.
I have been into ML lifestyle, so I know its attraction, please just ignore my posting if you think this is rubbish. Pls allow me to reach out to those who are concern about walking this road or have thought of getting off this road. Get off the road, earlier the better! Thank you/ Kum Sia.
My ealier posts : 3 post on 4/12/2019
Danger of ML lifestyle --Cont (last bit)
a) STD and AIDs
b) can Cost you $$$, your business and career
c) destroy your family (if married)
d) danger of police raid
e) Emotional hurt - many of us after visiting several ML start to develop concern, some love (we all know this is stupid and dangerous), however from my converstion with many ML, each of the better MLs all have some bros that treat them special (me also) - While I think this is good because we are human (emotional beings), we get ourselves upset and hurt they are out there serving other men on a daily basis. Worse...while we shower care/ concern/$ on our favourite ML, not knowing we are only one of their many bf. I too hv been hurt deeply
f) Loss of morality and Compassion - Closely related to e), to avoid emotional hurt, gradually some of us shut odwn our feeling, just enjoy...that works, however, as time goes by, you may find yourself becoming less compassionate, become more demanding and more self centred. Ask yourself, if you are introduced to an attractive girl by your friend or relative, do you start to check her out fom head to toes as you would on a ML? If you do...you would be treating the girl as a sex object (objectify) istead of a person. I found myself doing this unconciously. Danger : many women are sensitive and they can feel it. We can lose our sense of morality and compassion without you realising it.
g) last point (to be cont.)