Just now was recounting my sex experience, realise that my experience with wife is the lowest.
First girlfriend was a china girl back in 2008 while i was having o-levels that time. Atb was from online game, 3 years older than me and we had sex 3 times (still can remember i lose my virginity to her but she not virgin so first time shot twice.) Not sure if can be counted as girlfriend as we didn't have proper stead / break off. just met her 3 times for meal and sex after that no talk already.
Second girlfriend was during jc year 1 to 2, had sex about 10 plus times and almost wanted to try sex in school too but too scared get caught. Relationship lasted 9 months and broke up when a-levels exam stress came.
Third girlfriend was another girl from JC. we met during my ORD days and lasted 5 years. I had the most sex with her because I can remember we had sex almost every day during initial phase of relationship, probably more than 300 times in our 5 years of relationship.
With wife, we got married after less than 1 year of courtship as she want to settle down. had sex every weekend initially because we got work. After marriage, sex rates drop to once a month. Now, it's nil. both bian have to find other forms of sextifaction.