My viet gf also got her own problem. Everytime when she feel down, she would like to talk to someone so that she will not feel so sad. The person is always me now... reason is that her friends/family do not understand her and keep saying that she is not good.
So how can we understand vietnamese life partner's family and friends?
1) Friend, K keep asking her to work in massage parlour with her. She tell my gf that working in shopping selling clothes earn little money only and not enough to give family. She says that my gf is not good. Never care about family.
Now although K is banned from coming sillypore to work. Few customer still go vn to see. her. Hear from my gf that already 3 diff guy has visited K. Of course K will have to sleep with the guys in the hotel. Now all 3 give her money and buy motor etc. K starts to have money and 'love' from the guys. So she was telling my gf that if she never work in massage parlour, K will not provide money for the house rental and will also move out.
My gf still insist not to work with her... as she say she love me and will not work in massage parlour again. If only she don't love me, she will work. Ah K say my gf khung khung dien dien.
What could K possibly be thinking?
2) Brother 1, a normal viet guy. Not serious in work, drink all night. Now motor also kana confiscated by police for drunk riding. No money to take back the motor. Saty with my gf... but never contribute anything now.
3) Brother 2, in mekong, always skip class. no mood in study. Once ask my gf to buy him handphone than he will go back school. My gf wanted brother 2 to study hard because she knows that w/o study, it is difficult to survive as earn he will earn little money next time. Lucky still hegot lectured by my gf , he kwai kwai go back school. But my gf really heartbreaks about his attitude towards study.
What could both brother possibly be thinking?
4) Her father and mother wanna push her to married her previous bf (he is back in vn from usa...viet kieu). He came back to look for my gf and is now in mekong waiting for her. But my gf do not want to see him, and avoid him. This viet kieu is rich as he bought house for my gf family before (house alr sold to clear gf sis debt) and provide money for her family before. Heard that he dumped his wife and kids in USA to go back VN for my gf...
With his return, What could her father and mother possibly be thinking?