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Originally Posted by nitin
Greetings Bros.
I have been hovering ard this thread for sometime....ever since i start cheonging the Joo Chiat scene....At that time i was just reading and telling myself "nah this kind of things wuldnt happen to me" hahaha....but i was wrong....
Recently i met this Viet @ JC...well 1 thing led to the other and then she is back at Viet now...Frankly i reali like her....she oso ask me to go visit her parents...i hv intention to go....i even booked my leaves etc...but then when ever i do long distance calls to her....we hv com prob....she speak little english....we do understand each other alittle bit.
she oways tell me that her family need $$ and she told me her family need to renovate the house (if i interprete her correctly). she got no choice but to start working in viet KTV...i duno wat to say...i have advice her to try workin as salesgal etc... but she say she dun speak good english and dun pay tt well...now i m reali very lost....seriously i dun hv the financal ability to support her now....i wan to marry her bt i reali cant support her....deep down i have a feelin that i may lose the chance and regret wat had happened bt to live in singapore is totalli too stressful for onli 1 breadwinner
There was once i saw a couple which i think the wife is a viet and they have a baby....i was thinking to myself....why i cant do wat the man had did??
mayb bcoz wat a bro mention here which is quite true
1. language barrier
2. not enough knowledge of their partner's culture
3. not being sensitive enough
4. too bothered with other's views
by sonice82
bt also to add...it may oso due to my financal ability now....
but i like to share my views....you all agree that viet love their husbands....take care of them....YES i totally agree.....i think the reason behind this is becoz they come frm a tough family background...they know that their children need to have a proper education inorder to make it in life....no like sg gals now who onli know about make it in life themselves and nver care abt their children if they have....
To Bro Kangtao...i may help u if u need a viet who is workin as a certified translator in singapore....
well Bros out there....if you find the rite 1 be it viet or sg or any other nationals....and everythings is rite and you feel rite and go for it........
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