[TurtleStreets]

Hello sirs and sis!

M, 28 turning 29. Single. Decent job (to me, at least). I realised that I heavily invested a lot of my time and effort in my 20s in building my career and I have severely neglected time for self-reflection and planning. Im slowly starting to do it now. I take random buses and ponder about life until I reach the bus terminal.

To be honest, I am just looking for any general life advice from older (hopefully more wiser samsters).

Things like:
>What's your age and how did your view of 'Love' change over the years
>Is it still worth it to get married in Singapore? Local vs Foreigner?
>How do you deal with nosy people asking why are you still single at my age.
>Is there anything that I should be careful with now I am approaching my 30s in relationships?
>How to not get jaded by two-faced people either at work/professional setting?
>How do you (some of you feel) living a double-life with chionging and having a clean image in the day?
> Has chionging affected how you treat/view your relationships?


I know I'm just rambling. Thank you in advance for reading my post. Feel free to discuss your perspectives.

I will reply whenever I can.