[dromad68]

A successful relationship needs to be reciprocated. And it’s not just about the sex.

If a bro doesn’t care about the ML’s housing loan or other debts, why would the ML care about his feelings? If a bro doesn’t care about the ML’s children’s living expenses, why would the ML bother about his feelings? If a bro doesn’t care about the ML’s parents and their maintenance, why would a ML care about his feelings?

So if a bro wants only sex, the ML can give you sex for money, money that she used to pay her housing loan, her kids’ living expenses and her parents’ maintenance. The sweet talking comes with the territory. It’s the same everywhere: insurance agents, car saleswoman, hairdressers etc. they all want to sweet talk you and upsell. It’s customer service.

A ML is also a person with feelings, and with the same burdens that everyone has. A ML can have sex with 5-6 men a day and still be genuinely intimate with her boyfriend. With the 5-6 men, it’s just sex and any imagined intimacy is over once you shoot. With her boyfriend, it’s making love and the intimacy continues even after orgasm. The conversations with those men are about her body, about their pleasure, faster, slower, more teasing etc. With her boyfriend, the conversations are not just about her body and his needs, but also what gives her pleasure, about what’s on her mind now, is it late loan payments, kids school problems or parents’ health.

A ML also needs such intimacy and they are also vulnerable in bed. If a bro only wants sex and nothing else to do with the ML, it’s perfectly fine, the ML will give you what you pay for. If a bro wants to be a part of the ML’s life, then be prepared to give more than just money. Give your time, your attention and your care. It’s all a package and it’s no different from courting a regular girl.