
06-11-2022, 09:59 PM
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Re: How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type
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Originally Posted by benzaimun
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Originally Posted by Putin
That is for sure bro
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Tks, bros.
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Good evening,
The pandemic has made dating and chionging difficult since March 2020. Some bros would lower their standards. They also have paid more for lower-quality WLs.
Some men are so desperate that they would settle for old and ugly women they would never consider only a few yrs ago.
The following article by Chase Amante on the lack of abundance is interesting (written in early 2021).
HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH A LACK OF ABUNDANCE?
My preferred solution for a shortage of abundance is "get more abundance."
Most guys aren't in situations where approaching is outlawed or impossible.
For most, it's just different and they have approach anxiety.
They think about meeting masked girls during the daytime and say, "No way; too weird."
Even if you can't approach outside, dating apps (which I will usually tell you not to waste time on) can be a last resort.
But, truly, most guys can still meet girls if they want to.
I think the biggest thing though is many people have been PARALYZED by lockdown madness and political upheaval they haven't wanted to date as much.
They just sort of wrote the last year off as a "lost year" and figured they'd start back up again... sometime later... whenever things "go back"...
But even IF things go back (and I'm far from confident they will), who knows when that will be... and how long are you willing to wait?
Besides that, even as you're "waiting", your biology isn't.
You're going to feel lonely.
You're going to feel horny.
You're going to feel needy.
And that cute girl who is available to you is going to start to look better and better.
A lifetime ago, when I worked with a bunch of U.S. Navy sailors, one of them told me about life on deployment.
When you leave on an 8-month deployment, there will be a few women aboard. None will be attractive.
The best might be a 6 out of 10. There will also be a 5, a 4, and maybe a 2.
At the start of deployment, none of the sailors want these women.
But by the time the ship finally pulls back into the dock, even the 2/10 girl has three boyfriends and 10 more guys chasing her.
That's an abundance mentality (or, rather, lack thereof).
No guy realizes he's losing abundance.
Those guys who wanted nothing to do with those women at the start of deployment probably never envisioned themselves chasing after those girls.
Yet, when a man goes long enough without female attention, increasingly any female will do.
If you don't want to be that guy, you need to figure out how you're going to meet women and do it.
A few ways you can do that:
Learn a new style of game. Day game is still an option in most places. No better time to learn than the present.
Build up a social circle. Everybody wants to socialize even in spite of lockdowns. Find out where that's happening and join in.
Travel (if you can). Borders have closed some places. But not everywhere. If travel remains an option for you, use it.
Do "breather sprints." Most governments are easing and then resuming lockdowns periodically. When your area comes up for a breather, go hard, collect as many girls' contacts as possible, and work those leads when things lock back down.
You've got options.
But it's going to be like when you first got into seduction.
You're going to have hurdles you'll need to overcome.
Anxieties you will have to deal with.
Learning curves you must surmount.
Only by dealing with these can you escape that ugly trap that is lack of abundance.
And you absolutely should... because abundance is a beautiful place to be. Wouldn't you like to be back there again?
Any comments?
Cheers!
Bro WB
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