[Wtfbruv]

I legit reactivated my account for this. Always loiter the forums. But anyway, just my 2 cents.

I've been fat/overweight most of my life (less NS lol like a lot of bros i guess). Not rich. Never flexed car/cash/condo whatever. I've been "lucky" to have been dating for the most of my life, I'm now 35, married for 2 years.

Just a few tips from the target market aka women i've dated.

1. Humour is a huge plus. This is the only part I agree is like fate/whatever. Because some guys can be damn funny, a lot of guys i know are fucking tryhard and just get eyerolls all day.

2. Confidence is key. Everything else that people usually mention like looks, money or success actually all point back at this. Think about it. Rich/successful people are confident. Good looking people are confident. It's not rocket science. It's also fucking obvious when you see those people damn good at wayang and duapow dating some hottie. Because they literally fake it till it works. Of course 10/10 would recommend actually having some substance than just posturing your whole life.

3. Security/safety. This one also boils down to your target group. Like women nearer to my age gap are a bit more rational in choosing their partners. Uni kids all just want that special feeling or "connection". you know like 2 idiots vs the world kind of romance they are super suckers for. Older women will start to scrutinize your career, family relationships, world view etc.

In choosing a partner is like modern society is so good at giving points to other people. Reflect on how many points you are to others also. are you a 1/10? 5/10? 8/10? that determines the pool of women you get to choose also. To me based on visual i think i'm probably just a 3/10. Work on improving yourself in the "actual" areas of life and you'll buff the score naturally. Sure I've never had women approach me on the get go but I score well with women who have gotten to know me better.

At your age I was just bumbling around trying to get laid. Takes time and experience to get better at dating. A lot of my bros say I have what tao hua yun cherry blossom fate or whatever. What they don't know is that if friendzone was a real place I'm either the longest tenant or the fucking landlord. I really bashed through all that shit to get better with women.

Good luck young bro, hope you get to find that special someone.