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Originally Posted by manyMore321
I am in a relationship with a partner way younger than me.
So financially I am of course more able to spend and I am working and she still studying.
But after about a month or so into the relationship, I feel like me paying for everything getting taken for granted.
How do I handle this situation without getting into a fight and breaking up?
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Unfortunately, finding a girl where you don't pay for most stuff and don't feel like you're being taken for granted is considered an outlier. This is because the social norm is for the guy to provide, made even more pronounced when you're working and she isn't.
If you're feeling this now, just weigh if she's worth feeling like this for a long period. If not, try sounding it out, maybe it's not her intention. Otherwise, maybe find someone you're more comfortable with. But I'll tell u, it's a culture that guy's spending will always get taken for granted, just maybe it's to a lesser degree for some.