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Originally Posted by scumofsociety
Yeah I think we have similar mindsets and goals la, I also wanna bonk girls collect girls of diff nationalities, count and finishing in diff positions etc before I become old cannot bonk Liao. Chionging is More of a “been there done that” yolo hobby, collecting trophies.  .
Only con about this deal with the devil is: the kc, is satisfies your physical needs only. Most girls are in for the money, nothing personal just good biz. When I get a bad bonk I just tell myself I’m donating overseas and doing a good deed
Chionging can never be truly emotionally fulfilled, that requires a soulmate la. A partner that makes you want to be a better person, purposeful etc. that’s why choose spouse must be clear in what you want lor, not just for sex ah. , sex is just one of many considerations, sex drive incompatibility is still impt la, albeit for a limited period post marriage. |
- 120% Agree with this. At one point my life goal was to die happily knowing I bonked 1000 different girls from as many countries as possible in this world. When you have the opportunity to do it, JUST DO IT. I have had LIFELONG regrets of moments when I visited a country and had a chance to bonk there but didn't follow through with it, and I regret all of those until today, especially places where I know it's gonna be a very long time or if ever I am gonna go back there...
- I don't agree with the Soulmate concept. I think it's just a feminist propaganda to get men to go against our primary programming in nature to "bonk as many as possible" and get into monogamy. Even women themselves are not really buying this "Soulmate" stuff. Try telling your wife/gf you lost your job, lost all your wealth, go bankrupt. See what her reaction and next steps. I have seen horror stories where someone gets bankrupt or even get into accident and bedridden, and their wives without a moment's hestitation left them for dead just like that. Scary
- I also disagree about this. At this point, I am already immune to all the "Emotional" stuff. If I want that, I'd just talk to my mom or watch KDrama or something. When it comes to bonking, I just look to relieve myself from my overwhelming urges, almost no different than going to the toilet when you badly need to pee or shit
Talking about Devil, though. There's an interesting superstition that seems to go around about GL. I have heard this from several older men now that I think it's interesting to talk about this.
I was first told abt this when I was like 17-18 and I was with family members and family friend and her husband in their car. Dunno why in the convo suddenly GL is mentioned somewhat, her husband who was driving suddenly looked at me and said "Hey, youngster, don't ever go to GL arh since you are still in school! You will fail school miserably if you go there!"
The way he said it is like a curse. At that time I was already very active in GL and FL scenes, and for one second I thought maybe he saw me in one of the GL houses or something?
I had since heard it from other older men ranging from other family friends or even some taxi drivers that I talked with.
Is this really a thing? or just a prank by older bros to "gatekeep" GL from the youngsters? lol
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Originally Posted by RatedX
Never say never. It's never too late to turn back. Said the chiongster still chionging. Do it on your terms and when you want to.
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I half agree with this. In the sense that, when I found myself in Europe for some time years ago on exchange program, me being me, I dipped straight into the bonking scenes there.
and months into my time there, it got so bad that the only thing that I would bonk were White gals with blonde hair and preferably blue eyes. Not even the brunette I would pick. and Asian girls and JAV videos were 0% attractive for me. I would bonk blondies and watch only AMWF type of porn on the sides (till today this is the only porn I could watch now besides some types of JAVs)
But as my stint there ended and I had to go back to Asia, slowly that condition changed again. It took several months, but eventually I rediscovered my taste on Asian gals and I started bonking Asian gals again and Asian looking gals (Mongolian, Kazakh, Uzbek these types)
So if I can come back from that, maybe you are right, there's a way to come back from Full Time Bonker like me to fully functional member of society and marry the 4/10 Tan Ah Moois of this world?