Re: Very lost in life
I understand what you're going through.
It seems you've met someone new during your work travels.
You guys had a connection and even got close romantically.
But there's a twist: you're already married.
Being honest about your marital status was a good step. Now, you're at a crossroads.
You've been with your wife for a while, but things aren't going great. You don't feel the same way as before.
On the other hand, this new woman seems amazing, even though you've known her for just a short time.
Here's what you might want to think about:
Being Truthful:
It's good that you told the new woman the truth about your marriage. Honesty is important.
Your Marriage:
Try to think about what's not working in your marriage. Can it be fixed? Maybe talking openly with your wife could help.
New Relationship:
You've only known this new woman briefly. Sometimes, at the start, everything seems perfect. Take your time to know her better.
Thinking Ahead:
Think about how your choices will affect your future. Divorce is a big step, especially after being married for so long.
Understanding Yourself:
Understand why you're drawn to this new woman. Is it because things aren't great with your wife? Or is it something deeper?
Take Your Time:
Don't rush into big decisions. It's okay to take time to figure things out.
It might help to talk to a professional who can guide you through this.
Remember, there's no easy answer.
Take it slow, and think about what will make you and others involved happy in the long run.
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