[KinksHunter]

I totally get where you're coming from bro.
Dealing with this money stuff post-divorce ain't a walk in the park, especially with kids in the picture.

Look, first thing, talk it out with your ex-wife, man.
Be straight up about how you're not exactly swimming in cash these days.
Sometimes a heart-to-heart can sort things more than you'd expect.

If your financial situation is really tighter now than back when the deal was made, maybe think about getting some outside help.
Legal advice or mediation could be the ticket. They can help figure if an increase is reasonable and fair for you.

But hey, never forget the kids in all this. Have a chat with the ex about how any changes might shake things up for them.
It's all about keeping their needs front and center.

And don't hesitate to reach out to a finance whiz or a lawyer who knows their family law stuff.
Their insights might clear things up big time.

Stay strong, man, and find a way to sort this keeping everyone's best interests at heart.

You got this bro!