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Old 12-09-2023, 11:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Corlick View Post
Revisiting my post after almost 1.5 months. So my suspicion was correct. I think she found in me the BFE that's she's lost from her husband. Husband don't really care about the kids. Husband don't really show her affection. We have had lunches a number of times. We met after work a couple of times. We would just hang out in the car and drink a bottle of vodka. It may seem strange for her to agree to get into such a situation but there's no sexual situation. No holding hands kissing patting or sex. However we both have talked about our situation and we both agree this cannot carry on and we both know there's nothing good that will come out of this. We knew there's no way we can carry on this. This Friday we agreed it will be our last meeting in such circumstances. A few times we said we should take a break from each other but yes it has proven more difficult than both of us thought. But I guess this Friday it will be for real. She is going to europe with her husband for 2 weeks so I guess it's a chance for her to rekindle the love, and for me to forget her too. It feels terrible for me. Almost like a break up. Funny how life and human is...
TS, it depends on how you would like to chart this relationship. 2 weeks in Europe is not going to make her husband suddenly a better man. Absence makes the heart fonder. If you intend to carry on, it’s totally possible even after her trip. Who knows, she might even message you during her trip (very likely).