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Originally Posted by lonelyfish
Ok, still a bit understanding. But you mention that she already RTC right? How are you going to continue this relationship? Are you going to marry her and bring her back? How much time did you really spend with her? Do you want it to just remain the same and just use her for comfort and release?
How are you going to maintain a relationship with no ending? Maybe she also don't want to keep staying in this kind of relationship. If she is still young, she still got value. She has time to find someone else, it may be better for her. You want someone who can keep you company for a longer time, you pick those who are not young. >35yo is a good choice.
These kind of thoughts came across to my mind before, even tried to make her pregnant. I thought that can help make her stay with me. Even she had gave me very good offer, it is not going to be easy to get it approved. She don't have any urge or needs to satisfy, just did it out of feeling built-up. My ML didn't just open up, at the beginning, she was wary whether I thought she was just an easy woman. It took a lot of effort to finally get it. Many bros probably won't spend this kind of effort to unlock a ML. Now she give up already, her ex-bf also had a very good offer and she can't commit. Her priority will always be her kids, she will never give them up and she also can't satisfy the condition to make 1 more with me. The only thing left is to enjoy our remaining time together without getting into trouble and make it a good memory.
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she is coming back after CNY, spending time with her family and friends. she asked me to pick her up when she is back though..
i gotta say your ml priority is actually very solid, as she is totally focusing on her kids. but its at your expense, but you are so understanding as well to accomodate to her too. it is always nice to have a kid together with her as you will feel so much more with her.
actually for my ml, it was pure visiting to release at first. Until a point when she keeps saying she starting to have feelings for me, which i also do but did not mentioned initially. from there, it took off. she always teased me as i did not just wanna have sex for the sake of having sex. until she asked me, did i bring rubber along? i told her why would i, as i preferred raw.
this repeated a few times, until she said she wants it but capped. then i went to get the caps moving forward.
from then, both of us agreed to walk together for a few more months before commiting to having raw.. as we are still relatively new into the relationship..
the ml is young but not that young. apparently, she mentions alot bros are quite into her??(for sure, she's looks decent, at least!) i mean, if you are in this trade, its a given la
i cant make her stay for sure, she knows she cant, but she did ask me to go to her home country which i cannot commit as well......
