[Dobby]

You want to find someone and have not been successful, but have you found yourself yet ?
Do you know what you really need, not what you really want.
A lot of times, its all in the timing, we have what we need, but not at the time we need it, so we end up pursuing what we want, and lost what we need.

To find yourself, first and foremost, have to be really lost.
Sometimes, others can help you find yourself when you are lost.

Your AI thing is like a festering bandaid, or morphine.
Just end up in a spiralling cycle.

To find what you need, either see the world in different eyes, or thread a different path.