[InvasiveThought]

Hi,

I'm a guy in my late 20s and due to get married soon. My partner and i don't bonk due to our conservative households and families. Although that, i do have needs. Should i "eat outside"?.

Although that, i am worried that it would jeopardize everything i've worked towards and i realized that the safest would be to bonk someone who's attached/married as they have equally as much to lose.

Does this happen often nowdays? How do you guys keep it discreet and continuous? How did you meet them too?

Thanks!